WHAT ALLAH HAS TAUGHT ME AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN...

Seeking any kind of validation/appreciation, according to Allah, from a random boy/man, and from what Allah has taught me again and again and again and again and again... only leads to lust and straightttttt into Hell. Both of you. That is why it is not okay with Allah. He cares about you.

So, well, if you seek something preposterous, in case of a lover, you won't get it.

The simple law of life and love.

Let it go.

Focus your attention on something else and other things that you like to do, work on yourself, especially, girls/woman. And see that 'Let it go' come back to you with super duper horsepower speed.

Try it.

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SinlessOnslaught · M

Women care so much about validation, especially regarding their looks. Their true strength is inner beauty.

nobodyishome · 31-35, F

@SinlessOnslaught umm, and men, unfortunately, have a thing for innocence. I've learnt that much. :)

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

Why would lust put you in hell? Your body was created with pleasure centres to promote babies, and sex (lust) is a requirement for that. I would think Lust would be a welcome thing.

nobodyishome · 31-35, F

@JamesBugman I'm sorry, but if you're in America, that's not proper guidance at all. I can teach you the difference between love, sex, and lust.

There is absolutely no problem with :

1. love (even loving someone of the same gender or any gender)

2. sex (is okay, because I understand, 'love' towards someone of the same gender can lead to kissing, hugging, snuggling, sex)

There is a problem with:

3. lust

Only lust.

A bigggggg problem. I talk from personal experience. Like I said, that was my weakness for a long time, but not anymore. Allah taught me, very, very, very strictly and every badly the exact difference. I don't want to go there again, or even say the word, for that matter. So I will refer to it as (3.)

# Read 7 habits of highly effective teenagers. (EVERYBODY)

nobodyishome · 31-35, F

IS THIS IN ANY WAY ATTRACTIVE:

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/5248606-I-dont-understand-you-Not-to-anyone-on-here

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