Anxious
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

High School

My darling daughter started back at school today but I get a phone call informing me she has just been very rough with a boy I asked her when she got home what happened and she tells me the boy was being a nuisance so she did the old grab and twist yikes I am not happy but not sure how to deal with her now
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
Maybe enroll her in a martial arts class. Good martial arts classes teach ethics, self-discipline and avoiding fighting unless absolutely necessary. Also some guys would be enraged if she did that to them and counter-attack. She could suffer serious injuries.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
SW-User
Yeah you should nip that real quick because not all boys let that slide and one day she's going to mess with the wrong one. Self defence is one thing, but picking fights because someone is a nuisance is another.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Wow at schools in my city that would be grounds for suspension and maybe even sexual harassment If the boy wanted to make a big deal about it.
You were pretty vague about what the boy did to be a nuisance to her but nuisance doesn't give me the impression that it was something that warranted such a response.
She needs to learn to handle her aggression towards those that bother or annoy her and also to be fully aware of all of the possible consequences including violence towards her by someone who is stronger.
@REMsleep She is a real rebel I am always getting calls about her from the school and suspended or expelled in the past too
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Wediegiver Im sorry to hear that. Do you know what the root of her rebellion is?
Why is she unruly?
Lion1776 · 51-55, M
Talk to her and discipline her
Whyme · 46-50, M
Well depends on what being a nuisance is maybe he had it coming you don't want your daughter to be a pushover
Sharon · F
@Whyme I agree we don't know precisely what she meant by him being a nuisance but I doubt it was anying justifying assault. Boys can be prick but so can girls, who also often think they can assault boys and men with impunity. I note you avoid answering my question of whether you would find it equally acceptable if the sexes were reversed.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
black4white · 56-60, M
define nuisance...and then after that .... discipline or no accordingly.

also age is a big deal here more then all the rest.... how old is she ?
tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP
mine is suspended for 3 days
Funlov · M
Good for her
Baremine · 70-79, C
Take all the political correct crap and flush it down the toilet. Sounds like she did the right thing.
justanothername · 51-55, M
Hopefully after that he will leave her aline
Teslin · M
OUCH !! I just hope he deserved it ??
This comment is hidden. Show Comment

 
Post Comment