How would you handle this if you were in my shoes? [I Have Teenagers]

So a neighborhood teenage girl came to our house earlier and told me she wanted to talk to me about my son who is turning 15 soon. Apparently, she has a huge crush on him and is just asking me for tips and advice in approaching him to let him know how she truly feels. She's 14.

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BalmyNites · F

Oh woah, no way I would stay WELL out of it if I were you lol

This girl is 14 - talking to a grown man, asking for relationship advice?

Potential minefield for you, I would steer very clear & NEVER be alone with her in your house 😬

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BalmyNites · F

@UpForItNow Thank you

JustA · 36-40, M

@BalmyNites Nah my other kids were here when she came and I just told her it wasn't up to me and I couldn't decide for him.

BalmyNites · F

@JustA Very sage actions 😁

Mamapolo2016 · F

Tread very carefully. Potentially risky situation.

I'd tell my son she likes him and leave the rest up to them.

JustA · 36-40, M

@Mamapolo2016 I did tell him and he said "I know dad, she's been pretty obvious but I dont like her like that and IDK how to tell her without hurting her feelings"

Mamapolo2016 · F

@JustA I would just let him deal with it. He'll have to learn. Just be careful not to get yourself painted into a corner. That's a very bold/desperate move on her part.