What concerns me more is that you went up to the strange man when there was no security guard around. This could have ended very badly. Especially since he refused to leave. What if you had not been able to go get the security guard? I hope next time you'll call the security guard before you even approach anyone to ask them to leave or see what their business is. You really put yourself in danger. You might take the security guard out for dinner. That would be a nice token of appreciation. Or even better yet, a gift card to his favorite restaurant.
HikingMan · 51-55, M
Might I suggest that a face to face thank you would be enough?
As an ex security agent, and without knowing how your place of business works, I’d suggest that he probably should have known that guy was there before you did and that you shouldn’t of had to do or go through any of the anxiety you’ve described.
He eventually did what was his duty. Albeit in an After the Fact fashion.
I’m glad you’re safe and unharmed. But it seems to me that the person you’re looking to thank shouldn’t have ever given you a reason to thank him.
Peace
As an ex security agent, and without knowing how your place of business works, I’d suggest that he probably should have known that guy was there before you did and that you shouldn’t of had to do or go through any of the anxiety you’ve described.
He eventually did what was his duty. Albeit in an After the Fact fashion.
I’m glad you’re safe and unharmed. But it seems to me that the person you’re looking to thank shouldn’t have ever given you a reason to thank him.
Peace
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
I'm glad you're safe. If it were me I'd just get him a card thanking him for his help attatched with a gift card he can use to shop. That way he can get what he actually likes and I won't risk getting him something he doesn't like. Although, it probably would impress him more if you got him something, that way he could always look at it and be reminded of you and your kindness.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
Hey, yeah, that sounded scary. I'm glad you're alright.
For guards, usually, groceries.
Back at uni, our organization made a time to sing Christmas carols to security guards. We gave them groceries as gifts :)
In malls, there was a female security guard I wanted to give coffee too because she looked so tired and sleepy. But mom said I can't because it might risk their career. Apparently, they aren't allowed to receive gifts from customers.
So it depends on what is safe to give.
For guards, usually, groceries.
Back at uni, our organization made a time to sing Christmas carols to security guards. We gave them groceries as gifts :)
In malls, there was a female security guard I wanted to give coffee too because she looked so tired and sleepy. But mom said I can't because it might risk their career. Apparently, they aren't allowed to receive gifts from customers.
So it depends on what is safe to give.
HumanEarth · F
Get them a blank thank you card and write this:
Thank you so much for being there for me during a difficult time. Your support, vigilance, and kindness made a real difference when I needed it most. Knowing you were watching over us brought comfort and peace during a challenging moment. I truly appreciate your dedication, not just as a security guard, but as someone who cares about the people you protect. Your professionalism and compassion did not go unnoticed—thank you for going above and beyond.
With heartfelt gratitude,
Then sign your name here
Thank you so much for being there for me during a difficult time. Your support, vigilance, and kindness made a real difference when I needed it most. Knowing you were watching over us brought comfort and peace during a challenging moment. I truly appreciate your dedication, not just as a security guard, but as someone who cares about the people you protect. Your professionalism and compassion did not go unnoticed—thank you for going above and beyond.
With heartfelt gratitude,
Then sign your name here
beermeplease · M
glad it all worked out for you...i once had to play "security guard" when an addict walked in the front office and asked to use the restroom. one of the girls was taken aback by it and he helped himself to it. right then i walked in the office from the warehouse and the girls were acting nervous. i asked them what's wrong....they told me to go to the restroom....when i opened the door i couldn't believe the stench and "misty smoke" in the air....he locked himself in one of the stalls and was smoking his meth or fentanyl or whatever....i'll never forget how toxic it smelled....then my boss came down and we told the guy to get the eff out....but the nerve of some of these addicts doing what they please
RosaMarie · 46-50, F
I asked AI... got this
The best appreciation gifts for security guards balance practical utility for their long, often demanding shifts with personal recognition of their vigilant service. Essential gear like high-lumen rechargeable flashlights and insulated tumblers are top choices because they directly improve their daily comfort and job performance.
Practical Gear for Daily Shifts
These items are essential for officers who spend long hours on patrol or at a stationary post:
High-Intensity Flashlights: A powerful, reliable light is a safety necessity for night shifts. Models like the Nitecore TM20K offer extreme brightness (20,000 lumens) and long runtimes.
Insulated Drinkware: Staying hydrated or caffeinated is critical during 12-hour shifts. The YETI Rambler 30 oz Tumbler is highly rated for its durability and ability to keep drinks hot or cold for many hours.
All-Weather Writing Gear: Taking notes in rain or snow is common. The Rite in The Rain 3"x5" Notebook Cover Kit includes a waterproof notebook and a pressurized pen that writes at any angle and in extreme temperatures.
Portable Power Banks: Long shifts can drain phone batteries, especially if the post lacks outlets. A 20,000mAh bank like the Anker 20K 30W Power Bank can provide multiple full charges for most smartphones.
Comfort & Wellness
Because security work often involves extensive standing or walking, comfort-focused gifts are deeply appreciated:
Compression Socks: To reduce leg fatigue and swelling, podiatrists recommend gradual compression socks. Sockwell Compression Socks are popular for their moisture-wicking merino wool and therapeutic support.
Duty Belts & Accessories: Modular systems like the Rothco Deluxe Modular Duty Belt Rig help organize essential tools like keys, radios, and flashlights for rapid access.
Wellness Gift Baskets: For post-shift recovery, consider a basket with snacks, relaxation candles, or stress-relief items.
Personalized Recognition
Showing that you see the individual behind the uniform can be the most meaningful gesture:
Appreciation Plaques: A Personalized Security Guard Prayer Plaque acknowledges the weight of their responsibility and provides a lasting keepsake.
Custom Mugs: Practical for the breakroom, a Personalized Security Guard Mug featuring their name or a "Best Security Guard Ever" message is a simple, thoughtful gift.
The best appreciation gifts for security guards balance practical utility for their long, often demanding shifts with personal recognition of their vigilant service. Essential gear like high-lumen rechargeable flashlights and insulated tumblers are top choices because they directly improve their daily comfort and job performance.
Practical Gear for Daily Shifts
These items are essential for officers who spend long hours on patrol or at a stationary post:
High-Intensity Flashlights: A powerful, reliable light is a safety necessity for night shifts. Models like the Nitecore TM20K offer extreme brightness (20,000 lumens) and long runtimes.
Insulated Drinkware: Staying hydrated or caffeinated is critical during 12-hour shifts. The YETI Rambler 30 oz Tumbler is highly rated for its durability and ability to keep drinks hot or cold for many hours.
All-Weather Writing Gear: Taking notes in rain or snow is common. The Rite in The Rain 3"x5" Notebook Cover Kit includes a waterproof notebook and a pressurized pen that writes at any angle and in extreme temperatures.
Portable Power Banks: Long shifts can drain phone batteries, especially if the post lacks outlets. A 20,000mAh bank like the Anker 20K 30W Power Bank can provide multiple full charges for most smartphones.
Comfort & Wellness
Because security work often involves extensive standing or walking, comfort-focused gifts are deeply appreciated:
Compression Socks: To reduce leg fatigue and swelling, podiatrists recommend gradual compression socks. Sockwell Compression Socks are popular for their moisture-wicking merino wool and therapeutic support.
Duty Belts & Accessories: Modular systems like the Rothco Deluxe Modular Duty Belt Rig help organize essential tools like keys, radios, and flashlights for rapid access.
Wellness Gift Baskets: For post-shift recovery, consider a basket with snacks, relaxation candles, or stress-relief items.
Personalized Recognition
Showing that you see the individual behind the uniform can be the most meaningful gesture:
Appreciation Plaques: A Personalized Security Guard Prayer Plaque acknowledges the weight of their responsibility and provides a lasting keepsake.
Custom Mugs: Practical for the breakroom, a Personalized Security Guard Mug featuring their name or a "Best Security Guard Ever" message is a simple, thoughtful gift.
RosaMarie · 46-50, F
Repeated the question specifying that it was an office security guard.
The best appreciation gifts for an office security guard combine practicality for their long shifts with personal recognition for their role in keeping the workplace safe. Small, thoughtful gestures like a handwritten note, coffee, or snacks are highly valued by security professionals.
Practical Shift Essentials
These items help make long patrols or desk hours more comfortable:
High-Quality Drinkware: A durable insulated thermos ($30–$40) can keep coffee hot for an entire 12-hour shift.
Tactical Tools: A powerful LED flashlight (e.g., 1000+ lumens) is essential for night patrols, while a tactical pen ($15–$25) serves as both a writing tool and an emergency window breaker.
Comfort Upgrades: For guards who spend hours on their feet, shock-absorbing insoles ($35–$45) or high-quality work boots are impactful, highly practical gifts.
Power on the Go: A portable power bank ensures their phone stays charged during extended shifts when they may not be near an outlet.
Personalized & Commemorative Gifts
Show that you recognize them as an individual:
Customized Mugs: Options ranging from funny "Keep Calm" designs (~$22) to personalized name mugs (~$19) make for great daily-use items.
Recognition Plaques: A personalized acrylic plaque (~$49) or a prayer plaque (~$34) can serve as a lasting keepsake for their desk or home.
Apparel & Accessories: Branded or funny items like security-themed socks, embroidered hats, or custom keychains are affordable ways to show appreciation.
Low-Cost & Heartfelt Gestures
If you are on a tight budget or buying for a larger team:
Food and Treats: Surprise them with a gift card to a local lunch spot, a box of gourmet chocolates, or even homemade baked goods.
Handwritten Notes: A sincere thank-you card acknowledging their specific contributions often means more than a physical gift.
Downtime Entertainment: For guards with significant desk time, an e-reader (like a Kindle) or a subscription to a streaming service can help pass the time during quiet hours.
The best appreciation gifts for an office security guard combine practicality for their long shifts with personal recognition for their role in keeping the workplace safe. Small, thoughtful gestures like a handwritten note, coffee, or snacks are highly valued by security professionals.
Practical Shift Essentials
These items help make long patrols or desk hours more comfortable:
High-Quality Drinkware: A durable insulated thermos ($30–$40) can keep coffee hot for an entire 12-hour shift.
Tactical Tools: A powerful LED flashlight (e.g., 1000+ lumens) is essential for night patrols, while a tactical pen ($15–$25) serves as both a writing tool and an emergency window breaker.
Comfort Upgrades: For guards who spend hours on their feet, shock-absorbing insoles ($35–$45) or high-quality work boots are impactful, highly practical gifts.
Power on the Go: A portable power bank ensures their phone stays charged during extended shifts when they may not be near an outlet.
Personalized & Commemorative Gifts
Show that you recognize them as an individual:
Customized Mugs: Options ranging from funny "Keep Calm" designs (~$22) to personalized name mugs (~$19) make for great daily-use items.
Recognition Plaques: A personalized acrylic plaque (~$49) or a prayer plaque (~$34) can serve as a lasting keepsake for their desk or home.
Apparel & Accessories: Branded or funny items like security-themed socks, embroidered hats, or custom keychains are affordable ways to show appreciation.
Low-Cost & Heartfelt Gestures
If you are on a tight budget or buying for a larger team:
Food and Treats: Surprise them with a gift card to a local lunch spot, a box of gourmet chocolates, or even homemade baked goods.
Handwritten Notes: A sincere thank-you card acknowledging their specific contributions often means more than a physical gift.
Downtime Entertainment: For guards with significant desk time, an e-reader (like a Kindle) or a subscription to a streaming service can help pass the time during quiet hours.
That’s really disturbing, I am glad you are safe. Id get him some sort of food gift card or something he can get for himself?
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Talk to his supervisor. He would even know the company policy on such gifts.
Some places do have gift limits. I've worked for such places before.
Some places do have gift limits. I've worked for such places before.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I’d get him a gift card to a local restaurant, maybe $50, to show your appreciation.
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
Ya that’s pretty unsettling for sure!! A thank you card and gift card to a cool restaurant?
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
Tim Horton's gift card.
I am sorry to hear that. Watch out!
I am sorry to hear that. Watch out!
Harmonium1923 · 56-60, M
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@RosaMarie I know, it seems like every time I drive past the station closest to me every camping trip this summer gets 10 miles closer to home.
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
@Vin53 🤦♂
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OogieBoogie · F
Maybe also ring his company and tell them how good he was.
Neoerectus · M
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55