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Understanding and Controlling Sexual Desire and how to control yourself

Sexual desire is a natural part of being human. Across similar worlds, cultures, and societies, people experience it differently—but the challenge of managing it with balance and self-control is shared by many.

Controlling sexual desire does not mean suppressing it completely. It means understanding it, respecting yourself, and making conscious choices. Developing self-discipline begins with awareness—recognizing triggers, managing thoughts, and redirecting energy toward positive and productive activities.

Practices such as mindfulness, physical exercise, creative work, and focusing on personal goals help bring mental clarity and emotional stability. Maintaining healthy routines, limiting excessive exposure to stimulating content, and building meaningful connections also play an important role.

We qbelieve self-control is not about denial, but about balance. When we learn to guide our desires wisely, we create space for growth, respect, and inner peace—values that connect us all, no matter where we come from.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Multiple aspects to this, that you are excluding. A big one would be understanding the nature of the animal approach. Yet I refuse to think in terms of duality either.

EVERYONE is different. That makes so much more sense.

And it's all inclusive as well. Which pertains to those that don't think in terms of sexuality, even as adults.

Balance is as well multi directional. Perhaps infinitely multidimensional

How many points of balance are there in a spheroid, just in three dimensions? It's infinite BTW.

Now attempt to draw that same spheroid on a one dimensional line! It can only be represented by two points connected by a line.

So it can be said to have a single balance. Yet it's not a realistic representation.
smiler2012 · 61-69
[@softhearte1234] yes absolutely right at the end of the day we all have passions and urges in this area but there is always appropriate time and place and whatever provecation they need to be controlled
smiler2012 · 61-69
@DancingStarGoddess a standing joke between ned nimby and myself it is all taken in good fun lol yoiu should have sympathy for those two as the both follow manchester united 😄
smiler2012 · 61-69
@DancingStarGoddess 😄they look like two party balloons i do not think they make one big enough for that bust lol 😄
@smiler2012 They do, i can attest to this😂
That all sounds great on paper, but the reality of being horny is mind bending and cannot be controlled by mindfulness, exercise, balance or the other things mentioned, the fix is easily done.
Government should have houses just for this, you walk in horny and leave with a smile. I bet society would change completely, no more stabbings, or shootings, or beat up women. Even D Trump would stop killing people and might even start to help instead of destroy (actually, that is pure fantasy).
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
I find a cold shower works best 🥶
Adogslife · 61-69, M
We qbelieve self-control is not about denial, but about balance

Who is “We”?
Miram · 31-35, F
@basilfawlty89 Control yourself!!
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@Miram NO! 😠
Miram · 31-35, F
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@Miram rather uncalled for...

 
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