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A few months at best for me. The last few were only like a week or so. I try not to take it personally, but it still sucks to feel like you weren't good enough.
Truth is, you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea. Appreciate the human interaction while it lasts and don't hold it against them if they just weren't feeling it. This place isn't like the real world. You can't pick up on body language, tone, or facial expressions. You can't pick some place to hang out or some mutual activity to do share. We can't even really pick a time to meet. All you can do is exchange thoughts and try to understand each other better. There's only really so much you can say before you starting running out of words.
Expectations are the path to disappointment. Just enjoy the company you get and try not to force anybody into a role. If people really vibe with you, you'll hear from them again sooner or later
Truth is, you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea. Appreciate the human interaction while it lasts and don't hold it against them if they just weren't feeling it. This place isn't like the real world. You can't pick up on body language, tone, or facial expressions. You can't pick some place to hang out or some mutual activity to do share. We can't even really pick a time to meet. All you can do is exchange thoughts and try to understand each other better. There's only really so much you can say before you starting running out of words.
Expectations are the path to disappointment. Just enjoy the company you get and try not to force anybody into a role. If people really vibe with you, you'll hear from them again sooner or later