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Have you experienced people on SW …

Who commented on your posts / interacted with you (even if briefly) and all of a sudden ignore you without a proper reason ? And distance from you completely ?

And stop commenting on your posts ?

But they continue commenting on others ?
What do you think of them ?

Not talking about people who left the site , but still on SW somewhere hiding in the background.


Share your thoughts and experiences.
Thanks
SW-User
Everyone has reasons for why they do what they do ...you may not know them and that's ok
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
I get that. After all we are humans.

But abrupt change ??

@SW-User
SW-User
@scorpiolovedeep It happens
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Lol such are people 😊@SW-User
Carissimi · F
I believe I’ve done this to people, even those I knew from EP, and respected a lot, yet I cut them off because in my mind they had crossed a line. I’m sure it would seem like nothing to some people, but I have my reasons, and there are things I no longer tolerate, no matter who it is.

If someone blocks another, they have their reasons, and those reasons are personal and valid. I’ve been blocked plenty of times. I accept it, just like I’ve blocked many. Reasons vary, and it’s really a personal choice why you no longer want to be around certain people.

I just let it go. It’s not that important in the grand scheme of things.
Carissimi · F
You may have crossed their line without knowing you’ve done anything. We can’t know the reasons, and “lines” can be fragile. @scorpiolovedeep
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
I understand that you don’t trust men and me , but there are a few people here on SW who belong to this category.



@Carissimi
Carissimi · F
What category? I should correct one thing you said about not trusting men or you. I don’t trust anyone, period. @scorpiolovedeep
maybe they're just here to have some fun not initiate serious connections
@scorpiolovedeep they also might not want to come across as too keen you just never know
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Yes , those walls which we build around ourselves with our past experiences @metaldog
I'll let you know if people ever start commenting/interacting with me. I just wander around looking for something of interest. I do comment here or there, or click a heart now and again. I still feel as a bit of an outsider here.
LadyJ · F
I don't really notice things like that anymore
LadyJ · F
@XDHyperGirlXD1 I sent that to my sis today..she loved it 🤣
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@LadyJ ok for sending it on you owe me another cheese cake :D *steals your backup cheese cake* :D
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Good one …I like it

@LadyJ
SW-User
Yes, almost feels like they're reeling you in then ignoring you.
Doesn't really bother me, I don't play games. If people want to interact great, if not, no problem.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Yep. Hell, I’ve done that with people I liked or was amicable with at first, until I saw them do or say something that rubbed me the wrong way and so I distanced myself from them. When someone starts doing that with me, I take the hint and stay out of their way. We’re not gonna sit well with everyone, so I just accept and let us both go our own way.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
No,it doesnt concern me.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Wonderful
@Entwistle
I do Not even remember the commentator unless a post appeals me and this bookmark feature is way cool for the reread.
The regulars who disappear must have their reasons that I do Not dig in.
4meAndyou · F
SMH...don't really care all that much about people who are just commenting on my posts. However, I care very much about my friends. I would actually notice if they were ghosting me.
They either are not seeing your posts or they are not interested in your questions. I wouldn’t think much of it unless this is a friend you talk to regularly.
Lostpoet · M
I usually just click on what pops up in my feed so it might be that you don't post much or not at the same time that i'm on. Which is usually all the time.
TexChik · F
yep, and just disappear without a word.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Did you have a few too ?
@TexChik
TexChik · F
@scorpiolovedeep I did, yes.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
🤗
Sorry to hear .. hope you are ok now and moved on from those.

@TexChik
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I haven't noticed. Could be the feeds too.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Nothing to do with feeds , it is with people and their intentions / behaviour / assumptions / first impressions or last / DMs etc etc @Fungirlmmm
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@scorpiolovedeep I am sorry. I hope that changes for you
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Being curious and observant , I have asked this question @Fungirlmmm
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Probably, but I didn’t notice lol…. Rather, I didn’t take it personally
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Good positive approach.🙏

@WhateverWorks
NinjaStar · 100+
I am still trying to lick my elbow
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Did they hurt you ? @NinjaStar
NinjaStar · 100+
@scorpiolovedeep No but if they try that I'll bite them!
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Copy that … @NinjaStar
SW-User
There’s two of them .. but I don’t want to put them because they scare me now
SW-User
I don't take those things personally
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Good @SW-User
SissySecrets · 46-50, T
All the time but to each his own.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
True that ….@SissySecrets
Yep, that's life...
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Agree bro!! @NerdyPotato
eMortal · M
They’re looking for a serious relationship, you didn’t check all the boxes.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Yeah nah … let’s move on
eMortal · M
@scorpiolovedeep yep that’s what I do too. It makes me laugh sometimes. But hey, we all got dreams right?!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes... Thier choice
Fairydust · F
Never notice. 🤔
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
All the time, it is what it is.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
Yep. Few days ago some lady turned the conversation sexual in a very inappropriate way and when i asked her to change the topic she told me she didnt me as she had a boyfriend and blocked me.

Another had two conversations with me and then blocked me suddenly. She may have taken my sarcastic attempt to change topic the wrong way. Its easy to misinterpret online

 
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