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Why have so many of the old SW members left?

CestManan · 46-50, F
Eventually it just gets to where people get tired of things and move on.
Plus on here if people "put themselves out there" they become the target of blocking and abuse.
If you fly under the radar, you are mostly ignored. You cannot really win.
chrisCA · M
@CestManan "Too many people on here though block others for no apparent reason"
Overly sensitive twits.
chrisCA · M
@CestManan Some probably get tired of the sexism, ageism, politics, and the fakes.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@chrisCA somehow I tend to avoid all those though.
meggie · F
There were at least 3 members on here that got very close to another only to be heartbroken when informed of their friend's death. As they tried to get over their loss they discovered the "friend" wasn't dead.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@meggie I remember that you have to be a real piece of shit to fake your own death and play with peoples emotions like that
CestManan · 46-50, F
@meggie Faking one's own death is one line that is not to be crossed for every reason imaginable.
The most noteworthy being - there is NO regaining trust after such a stunt.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@meggie RIP in translation.

All it takes is someone assuming someone was gonna kill themselves and then spread around the how they're dead
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Im sure if you visit their pages, many are still here and active...but SW decides who sees what now, so for whatever reason they dont sharexsll pists withveveryone. Ive had a few conversations this week with friends i thought had left because i havent seen them post for weeks, and in visiting their pages i see they are here and posting....and they thought the same of me.
Its bonkers how they do it. Its ruined the site for me.
msros · F
Too many new "improvements" which are not wanted.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@msros yes
CestManan · 46-50, F
I think another reason is because some member's constant self-pity gets tiresome. It's like the have the world by the curly hairs yet they are still unhappy.
helenS · 36-40, F
@CestManan Within a community of some 10,000 members, you will always find all sorts of people...
@helenS You are a mainstay of SW. I think that is great. I always try to read your posts. Why do you stay?
helenS · 36-40, F
@Alfred22 Thank you for reading my contributions to the site.
Why do I stay? In fact I can't say I "stay", because I've never even considered leaving this lovely place.
Although I have to say there's a certain "sameness" to the site. Things never really change. It's just that people come and go, but helenS stays put.
Regards,
H.–
been hear 6 years ,,nave no real friends any more,,,,,,now the sight is a Q&A site ,,,unlike E,P was a wild west of sights,,,and yes we still crying over its grave,,,,,some say get over it,,but the ones that say that never was a E ,P member,,,,😭
solitaire · 41-45, F
Yeah this site is not like EP @jackrabbit10
@solitaire thank you for your reply,,,I also was a member on E,P for 6 years,,,,

6 years seem to be the life of a sight,,,🐰
SW-User
@jackrabbit10 Yep. It went from a diverse site with stories to just a boring Q&A site.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
All the 'improvements' have ruined the place. No natter how much in tweek my feed, i only see posts from a handful of people. Posts are hidden from me....because SW decide what to show me....incannot choose myself or alter that.
Despite have a couple if hundred peeos i ( supposedly) follow and follow me....i dont get to see their posts unless i visit their pfofiles and they dont see mine either.
Its changed the whe dynamic of the site.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@helenS thanks...i dunno how to bookmark.
helenS · 36-40, F
@RubySoo your web browser might have an entry "Bookmarks" in its menu bar. Click on that and select "bookmark this tab" (or similar).
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@helenS i only sign in on my phone.
Thanks tho for being helpful xx
Adogslife · 61-69, M
The content quality has dropped and people can just be too overtly argumentative.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Adogslife I don't want those types back.
@Crazychick CC, I am glad you are still here!
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Alfred22 Thanks. :)
helenS · 36-40, F
People come and go, but the site doesn't change. There is a certain sameness to this place.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@helenS I suppose so.
The connection that existed on EP is lacking. The way we communicated. The stories. Our thoughts. Our opinions. The discussion. The bonds we created. The way we could reach out and help others. The fact that we listened. We mattered. We didn't need to show our genitals or our breasts on EP. Granted some did. We didn't need validation from complete strangers. Many here do now. It is a shame. Questions were answered with thought. With all the "improvements" here now, people are thinking that this site is deteriorating and it isn't worth the effort. The world is changing. The pandemic has caused chaos. We need to decide what matters most to us. Life is busy and priorities change. I value my inner circle. I always have. Time goes on and on...
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
because i murdered them all and stuffed them in my closet 👀
@XDHyperGirlXD1 me don't speakz Engrish
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Ihopetolivehappily i already blame you on the murders 👀
@XDHyperGirlXD1 😭..........🚶‍♂️........🏃‍♂️
Rutterman · 46-50, M
My assumption is they get tired of it and decide their time is better spent doing other things.
MougyWolf · 36-40, M
they chose life
The feed had exactly [b]nothing[/b] wrong with it, yet they made changes to it which have made it far worse 🤦‍♂️ Downvoting and images also seem rather unnecessary and pointless to me, but I'm willing to hear other opinions
Bang5luts · M
Because SW changed too much for some to stay.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
So many reasons

To many changes to the site nobody wanted or liked

Then a bunch of halfwits joined from YA

And I'm not on as much so a lot just up and left 🙆‍♀️
This place is in a death spiral like EP used to be. And the admins promise shiny new things and fail to deliver.
Eklipse · F
They're still here. In alt accounts
Eklipse · F
@Crazychick I got alt accounts. Theres no rule against them anyway lol.
@Eklipse Not always. Many people are gone forever.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Eklipse Apparently we are not to have more than three accounts, so when an anti-British troll found out I had four accounts she reported me just to be bigoted and vindictive. Now I only have this one.
I wrote about this kinda long, but speaks to your post

https://similarworlds.com/news/4272506-The-loss-here-of-so-many-nice-people-its-your
Eklipse · F
I think a lot just come and go.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@Eklipse I tend to come and go re time here, but never closed my account. Looking through my friends list, I see a number of the old regulars gone. :(
Eklipse · F
@ChipmunkErnie I happens. Maybe life situations among others. One could never really know unless you had a confrontation with them and it was the reason they left.
Domking · 61-69, M
Maybe the principle of [b]natural selection[/b] is at work. Those who are comparatively more loving, extrovert, or relaxed or naughty or tolerant are staying
helenS · 36-40, F
@Domking Like me, for example: relaxed, naughty, and tolerant 😏
@helenS Indeed, you are laid back, quite fun, and patient with those who are a bit unusual. On the general point, SW does seem to be moving in the FB direction. That is not something I "like" or even favor.
I had loads of members on my profile but most have gone now. I check from time to time and there is the cross in the box and another one gone
solitaire · 41-45, F
No idea. I hardly log in nowadays. I guess I'll never leave this place but I'm hardly active on here :)
@solitaire I've cut back a lot, myself. All the same kind of stuff gets old after a while.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
The ones I've noticed leaving seem to be those who don;t like the bigots and haters.
@Crazychick I have lost loads of friends over the past year.
@nevergiveup Same. Over the last [b]3[/b] years.
Sjones13 · 41-45, M
I guess they could’ve lost interest in things
romell · 51-55, M
The only permanent in life is CHANGE
Carissimi · 70-79, F
They have a life.
@Carissimi Well, they do [i]now. [/i]
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
People get tired and move on
They keep changing SW!
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Im old but still here
turnedtostone · 56-60, F
Intelligence?
I think people tire of the same old kinds of things all the time, and they just feel like moving on. I've felt that way a lot.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Could be lots of reasons they got bored with it & Decided to do things in the real world
helenS · 36-40, F
@JohnOinger Like, becoming US president...
SW-User
Difficult to bond on here. Few Europeans.
Have not seen you name come up before.
I seem to be stuck in a loop.
I am always going through my friends list and removing people that have left.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
Perhaps they are getting too old for SW?
@WandererTony Bullshit. It is the site that is spiralling downward.
ArminArlert · 22-25, M
They probably got bored of it and don't check in anymore.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
No one leaves, they have alts and they lurk more than they post. 👀
Sjones13 · 41-45, M
But I’ve met interesting people here
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Ambroseguy80 I don't want to name names on a post, but I've had a few notifications from old posts and half the members who commented on them are not here any more.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@Crazychick well the only reason I asked - is because the answer will vary from member to member as to why they left.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I'm not that old but im still here🤗😘
DaveyTaco · 31-35, M
Im not sure.
How are you?
Because this shit is a shadow of what it used to be.
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Full of fake accounts that's why
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@HotPizza71 I'm not a admin I want to be a admin pay attention please
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
@ExtremeNext having 17 accounts won't help your cause!
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@HotPizza71 You can say that again. I used to have 4 accounts and that was too many, so they deleted the other three and just let me have this one.
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Domking · 61-69, M
@iamonfire696 which group ? The people staying? Or, those leaving ?
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