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Can't we all just get along?

I have only been a member for a short time here on SW and noticed many members who laugh or ignore you when you try to support them. Do people do that in real life? Makes me wonder if I am doing something wrong? and if I should be a total asshole when commenting on posts. Also, the phonies that don't interact with you when they add themselves as a follower or friend, or say thank you when you do make a compliment, should I block them? This whole thing is crazy and I am almost at my wits end
SW-User
I hate people adding me and ignoring me. I take them off my friends list and even block some people that are constantly answering other peoples posts while ignoring mine. I hope I’ve been a good friend to you. I feel the same as you. Ep was much more friendly than here. Even if they’re nice to you most of them start to hide and ignore. Just weird and frustrating.
SW-User
@MoonlightLullaby You got that right
@SW-User This place will surely open your eyes when it comes to human behavior.😉
SW-User
@MoonlightLullaby True, it’s premeditated because no one can ignore someone that posts all the time unless they want to. I’m relieving them of my presence on here. They should thank me those twats. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏼😅😅😅
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
I have never seen the point of why someone adds/follows you, then you never hear from them at all. 🤷‍♀️
SW-User
@JerseyGal Exactly, it is almost like you are being stalked, very creepy
JerseyGal · 51-55, F
@SW-User
Yes, and it makes me feel like teens or something and all they care about is getting their "numbers" up with as many "friends/followers" as possible.
I'm sorry you haven't seen the brighter sides of this place yet. It's getting harder to find nice and reciprocating people, but goodness still hides in the corners of this place.
I also understand what you're saying about offering help/support to people who totally ignore you, which can be disheartening, Put them on mute & stay away. Block if you must, especially the dramatic & mean spirited people. After all, you're here to find connections/friendships that are worthwhile, uplifting & add a little fun.

Some around here are big into number counts; as in profile views & followers so I think that's why some add just anyone and never intended to communicate.

Btw, welcome to SW. Nice to come across you and I can only hope things get easier for you. Good luck! 🤞
SW-User
@MoonlightLullaby Much appreciated, thank you for the warm welcome
@SW-User You're most welcome. Hopefully you stick around.😊
Oster1 · M
Just enjoy and take time to get to know this place. Be yourself, friendly and helpful.

In time you will feel more comfortable. Welcome to SW.
Oster1 · M
@SW-User Yw. This place can be fickle and rife with different personalities.

I never mute, block or take anything seriously. 😊
SW-User
@Oster1 You are so right😁
Oster1 · M
@SW-User 👍You will be fine. I'm glad you posted!
smiler2012 · 56-60
well do not be you will make friends and work out who the arseholes and avoid them . do not let the negative people of similar world drive you down and force yu to go in time[wanderingdisaster]
exchrist · 31-35
think of first time users still learning to interact or shyly quiet. or think maybe they are just busy/distracted. Also some people are just like that. You are unable to do anything "wrong" in this setting
SW-User
@exchrist Appreciate that, thanks so much
dems fightin werdz!..
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Also don’t openly trust people here. They can be one way on posts but in direct messages they are a completely different person to what they portray.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 Me too
SW-User
@SW-User For sure
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User haha that’s funny
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I find people come here to take out their anger on strangers.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 I find that very true too
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I don’t like it. People come here for support, to laugh, find friends. No need for that.
Lilnonames · F
Yes BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK then u b happy👍
SW-User
@Lilnonames Thank you, I appreciate those words :)

 
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