pearllederman · 61-69, F
hope you like it here
GhostTickles · 36-40
@pearllederman I might as long as its cheerful, thank you. 🙂
You have to tell yourself that you matter because you do. You have to learn to say no. My younger brother and I don't get along. I avoid him at all costs. I gave in and gave him $3,000 to fix his car. He still owes me $2000. It boggles my mind how selfish he is. I told him no more....no more will I help him out financially.
Don't allow people to rob you of your happiness and take advantage of your kindness. You have to learn to say no.
Where do you think you started feeling the way you do? Childhood, teens, early 20,s? How are things with your husband?
Learn to set boundaries with people. That is important.
Don't allow people to rob you of your happiness and take advantage of your kindness. You have to learn to say no.
Where do you think you started feeling the way you do? Childhood, teens, early 20,s? How are things with your husband?
Learn to set boundaries with people. That is important.
GhostTickles · 36-40
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I get where your coming from... you know that quote that always tell you "family comes first"... and you know it hurts like when you tell them you can't they pull out that card, by making you feel guilty and say that you never help out the family... sigh... it doesn't help that I don't have a response back because I'm very forgetful and no hurts you more than your family... I'm starting to set some boundaries... well sort off... I just make them think I'm just really busy... You're right I should learn to say no, but I wont perfect it... it takes practice...
The way that I feel, I guess since I could remember... I always felt like I never deserved anything... I mean I used to ground myself when I was a kid, if I thought I wasn't good that day... but that's before... when I started working I decided to avoid being in any sort of relationship with anyone till I learn to love myself... if I still had that attitude when I was a kid, I would have stayed in abusive relationships... cause I never saw anything better... I thought it was something unavoidable back then... until I met my future husband... he was such a sweet heart... I seriously thought he was too good to be true... like its all an act... it took me long time before I could actually trust... I was waiting for him to get mad, to yell at me, to hit me... none of that appeared when we were dating... I seriously was astonished... I never thought it was remotely possible to be an relationship without some kind of form of abuse... he literally proved me wrong... I'm glad he did... 😁
The way that I feel, I guess since I could remember... I always felt like I never deserved anything... I mean I used to ground myself when I was a kid, if I thought I wasn't good that day... but that's before... when I started working I decided to avoid being in any sort of relationship with anyone till I learn to love myself... if I still had that attitude when I was a kid, I would have stayed in abusive relationships... cause I never saw anything better... I thought it was something unavoidable back then... until I met my future husband... he was such a sweet heart... I seriously thought he was too good to be true... like its all an act... it took me long time before I could actually trust... I was waiting for him to get mad, to yell at me, to hit me... none of that appeared when we were dating... I seriously was astonished... I never thought it was remotely possible to be an relationship without some kind of form of abuse... he literally proved me wrong... I'm glad he did... 😁
You husband is your priority now as well as this new child. They come first.Family comes second. As you get older your tolerance level becomes less and less. Family can be toxic...it's ok to keep them at a distance.@GhostTickles
GhostTickles · 36-40
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I'm expecting it too... thank you... I think its going to slowly turn into that...
DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
GhostTickles · 36-40
@DanielChristensen 😄 Thanks, can't wait for all the late night screams...
labsrock · M
Welcome aboard 🙂