Why is it that when you're trying to lose weight or get in shape family is not ever supportive?
But when you're fat, they give you a hard time about that too.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
The whole world's a critic but when family or spouses deliberately sabotage your efforts to lose weight it is a good indicator that they are insecure and don't want you to change into someone else that they might lose. My ex was that way, could make some of stupidest comments if I gained weight but if I was losing (and I had to keep it a secret by walking for miles when he wasn't around and trying to eat a normal looking dinner when he was around) weight and he noticed then suddenly he'd be bringing candy bars and other sweets into the house and offer them to me.