That's the thing with bdsm, it's all stupidly fake, it's pretend power. The guy is getting what he wants anyway, you are getting him off the way he likes.

Yes. an ordered task does not negate your role at all.

Yes. Especially if your name is Dominique.

Yes because you're the one in charge and calling the shots.

🤔 *Starts to understand more about why we can't get along..*

I believe so

Only if you forgive me for the things I am about to do to you.

Yes, because you are doing the ordering…..they have to follow your order even if it means acting dominant.

You can teach, which in itself is a position of "authority" i suppose.

It totally depends on the activities performed by subs. He might not agree with u once he/ she gets the charge.

If the sub is carrying out your will, and you retain control over the scene, I think you would.

I am an expert and the answer is maybe.

You're welcome.

You won't be a domme for long if you order your subs to dominate you and then you submit to them, but if all you do is order them to dominate you and you don't submit, then you're still the one in charge, see? It's all up to you.

of course. but how respectful you are in tell others to be .... may get the cold shoulders.

this might be an overthinking kinda moment.

🤔 *rewinds 50 shades*

Dom shmom

All of the sex robots not programmed with properly nuanced algorithms have simultaneously ejaculated, seized and exploded. As a novice in the matters of sadomasochism, my only response is to suggest a properly placed pre-order of leather. Lotsa lotsa leather, and this whole thing is gonna work itself out. Also, there will be lots of sweating. I suggest water and some good carbs. :D

Stop making my brain hurt.

Isn't that just delegating? You are still a dom. Only now you have lieutenants.

Yes, It's called service topping.

In case no one has already pointed it out. I'm not going through all of that. ☝🏾 👇🏼

You as the Dom/Domme retain the power dynamic.

You can't be a Dom, you'd have to be a Domme. But I suppose you could still be one.

Seems like you would be because you are pushing them to do something against their nature and to accomplish what you want them to.

yes, because they only have the control that you're letting them have

That sounds perfect actually.

yes


your name,,, it might make me cry...
MEOW!

What kind of subs do you order? BLT? Turkey club? Steak and cheese? 🤔

Yes

domme-ing from the bottom again?

i eat my subs

I'll always consider you to be a goat.

I am a sub, sub freakin zero,, Finish Her.

I'm no expert but I'd guess that the answer is yes.

Depends on what things