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Am I still considered a Dom if I order my subs to do dominating things?

Yes. an ordered task does not negate your role at all.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@DancingStarGoddess: he's a good little slave too 😁
@DancingStarGoddess: In all fairness pumpkin, I've never been anything other than loyal, I haven't had the chance to be dominant and when the opportunity presents itself, I am not experienced enough to do it.
@dumpstermeow:
@DancingStarGoddess: 😶
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Yes. Especially if your name is Dominique.
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
@dumpstermeow: It's so hard to find good help these days. Time to fire them all and attend to your needs *personally* I guess.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@KingofPizza: 😁 best decision ever
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
@dumpstermeow: So I guess... what am I making you? Or should I pick up in-n-out or something?
SW-User
Yes because you're the one in charge and calling the shots.
DanielChristensen · 46-50, M
All of the sex robots not programmed with properly nuanced algorithms have simultaneously ejaculated, seized and exploded. As a novice in the matters of sadomasochism, my only response is to suggest a properly placed pre-order of leather. Lotsa lotsa leather, and this whole thing is gonna work itself out. Also, there will be lots of sweating. I suggest water and some good carbs. :D
shaelan · 41-45, M
I am an expert and the answer is maybe.

You're welcome.

You won't be a domme for long if you order your subs to dominate you and then you submit to them, but if all you do is order them to dominate you and you don't submit, then you're still the one in charge, see? It's all up to you.
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
🤔 *Starts to understand more about why we can't get along..*
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
🤔 So if I'm the pretty one then you're reverse and that makes youuuuuuu........
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@OpenArmPolicy: 😡
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
xD I must be happy right now if you're so angry!
That's the thing with bdsm, it's all stupidly fake, it's pretend power. The guy is getting what he wants anyway, you are getting him off the way he likes.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@transcendinghell: you don't think I get off on it?
@dumpstermeow: Irrelevant. They are getting off the way they want to.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@transcendinghell: so am I
taintedprincess · 46-50, F
I believe so
SW-User
Only if you forgive me for the things I am about to do to you.
SW-User
@dumpstermeow: *grabs your ass and takes you to bed*
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@Coldeyes: *throws out the silly idea of being a Dom*
SW-User
@dumpstermeow: *presses your cheek into the sheets*
Mordi · 31-35, M
I'll always consider you to be a goat.
Mordi · 31-35, M
Zero times with your eyes.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@Mordimoux: 👀 marry me
Mordi · 31-35, M
Once now I guess. 😳
You can teach, which in itself is a position of "authority" i suppose.
@Outoforbits: Or where you just trying to break the internet with conundrums lol
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
It totally depends on the activities performed by subs. He might not agree with u once he/ she gets the charge.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Yes, because you are doing the ordering…..they have to follow your order even if it means acting dominant.
SW-User
If the sub is carrying out your will, and you retain control over the scene, I think you would.
katielass · F
You can't be a Dom, you'd have to be a Domme. But I suppose you could still be one.
cycleman · 61-69, M
of course. but how respectful you are in tell others to be .... may get the cold shoulders.
Classified · M
Isn't that just delegating? You are still a dom. Only now you have lieutenants.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Stop making my brain hurt.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@StevetheSleeve: you're not in charge here
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@dumpstermeow: Until you say I am, I guess. It's all so confusing.
WeighedDown · 36-40, M
I am a sub, sub freakin zero,, [big]Finish Her.[/big]
SW-User
🤔 *rewinds 50 shades*
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@Fivehole350: you'll find no answers there
SW-User
@dumpstermeow: Yeah, it was just a joke. I've heard that it's not very accurate.
SW-User
this might be an overthinking kinda moment.
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dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@IstillmissEP: I'm sick of looking at pictures of your sister 🙄
Elegy · 46-50
@dumpstermeow: I lol'd
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i eat my subs
Elegy · 46-50
Yes, It's called service topping.

In case no one has already pointed it out. I'm not going through all of that. ☝🏾 👇🏼

You as the Dom/Domme retain the power dynamic.
wyolatex · 41-45, M
Seems like you would be because you are pushing them to do something against their nature and to accomplish what you want them to.
ambernichellle · 22-25, F
yes, because they only have the control that you're letting them have
Degbeme · 70-79, M
What kind of subs do you order? BLT? Turkey club? Steak and cheese? 🤔
yes


your name,,, it might make me cry...
MEOW!
Newandimproved · 61-69, M
domme-ing from the bottom again?
Reject · 26-30, M
That sounds perfect actually.
SW-User
SW-User
I'm no expert but I'd guess that the answer is yes.
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
Depends on what things

 
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