Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Should children under 18 be allowed access to the Internet?

Rates of depression and anxiety in teenagers have increased by 70 percent in the past 25 years. What has changed since then? The use of the Internet for starters!
Teens are already very vulnerable during this period of time in their life because they are trying to figure out who they are and establish themselves as adults. Add in social media and watch the fireworks!
Teens feel so much pressure because social media is similar to being on a stage ALL THE TIME. They have to post selfies that impress friends and be exciting enough to drag in more friends. And of course there is always the potential for it to go drastically wrong...take an embarrassing or revealing photo and it will spread like wildfire, say the wrong thing and there will be screenshots, and if someone wants to bully you now they have hundreds of different ways to do it!
We thought life was tough with traditional school bullies and peer pressure long before all of this was added in! No wonder kids are BURNED OUT today. The Internet is everywhere because everyone has cell phones and there is no escaping it.
Do you think it would be better for kids these days to go back to no Internet and no cell phones?
why cant parents be parental anymore?
Why is it up to society and government regulations to raise our kids..
@MrBrownstone: indoctrining their poor kids into the victim mentality and infection called liberalism 😃
NineLives · 41-45, F
It can go backwards here too. Parents SHOULD be raising their kids, but thanks to the Internet and this new liberal awareness crap kids now have RIGHTS.
We live in a society now where it is practically impossible to enforce any type of rule. They are teaching children at a young age that if Mommy and Daddy take away their cell phone, then all they have to do is call CPS, because that is abuse.
A parent can NO LONGER be strict, enforce any type of rule, etc. because the kid simply says, "Yeah right" and walks out the door.
What are you doing then? Going after them? Dragging them back in?
You'll be sitting in the back of a police car faster than you can count to 10.
@NineLives: under your roof they have rights alright.. 'Like it or lump it'. If my kids to threaten a strike or a walkout. I'd pack a bag for them..
Maybe if parents were held responsible for their little darlings actions we'd see better parenting ..🤔
In fact. If we could start holding anyone responsible for their own actions instead of making excuses for them.. That'll be great
Sicarium · 46-50, M
I believe failed parenting and teaching is way more responsible for that than the internet. If you raise a generation to be entitled cry babies then they're going to be entitled cry babies regardless of WiFi access.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Nothing to do with the internet.
It's expectation. Or rather, the unrealistic expectation ! That being, that it's fine to have children. But don't think you can afford to stay home and raise them !!
My generation of kids had one parent who worked and one who stayed home to raise children.
Then the idiot 80's happened.
Japan stormed the world with new technologies for home entertainment. Recession and depression hit the west as suddenly Western goods were more expensive than those produced in the East.
All of which meant that suddenly it was the expectation that BOTH parents went out to work to cover the bills.
Which meant many of us 70's kids raised ourselves (ever heard the term 'Latch key kids ?) as work and life pressure on parents forced many to eventually separate.
So the expectation today is that grown ups have to work
So these days kids aren't being raised by parents anymore. They are being raised by technology !
Mobile phones; PDA's Laptops; internet connections etc.
And when you consider that nobody remembers who made the first telephone, but they praise Jobs and Gates as 'Gods of the era'.....tells you something is very wrong.
I don't think the internet and cell phones are the problem at all. Kids simply aren't being raised to be able to deal with life.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
A lot has changed in the past 25 years, including diagnoses and awareness. Correlation is not causation,
SW-User
^this
louisecox97 · 26-30, F
Do you really want a world full of teenagers deprived of internet porn
NineLives · 41-45, F
We didn't have Internet porn when we were younger and the rates of erectile dysfunction were much lower.
Now doctors are seeing men come in with problems in their 20's due to anxiety problems and a general lack of interest in sex. Sad!
Fangirlsarah1996 · 26-30, F
I say they should be allowed, but they should be made well aware of the risks and their parents should actually care.

The Internet is only the Wild West because it's not really regulated, people go on for the first time knowing there's no rules.

That's how The Wild West died out.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
That is true. But some website's do have rules what you can post.
Fangirlsarah1996 · 26-30, F
@MrBrownstone: I think they're trying to make the web a cleaner place I guess.
curiosi · 61-69, F
We are way more exposed to chemicals, then we once were and it's getting worse. there is also the fact that at one time we all pulled ourselves up by out boot straps and toughed it out, now it's run to the doctors for happy pills.
fun4us2b · M
No! I agree 100% - The Internet is the playground of human vices where all the children go to play.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Those reasons apply to everyone.
NineLives · 41-45, F
Well I don't know. While I agree that social media isn't good for adults for the same reasons (Facebook in particular has high rates of adult narcissists), I would like to argue that an adult should have more logical reasoning.
You don't hear very often about adults committing suicide because they were bullied on the Internet, yet adults do get bullied, they just usually aren't as vulnerable as teens.
They are more likely to block the person or hit the log off button and go about their day.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@NineLives: Valid point. Like someone else said. Kids should be taught how to use it.
SW-User
The internet hasn't been a negative factor to depression.
Cuteboy13 · M
Yeah why not
Did you not read the post? She explained why not. Maybe kids shouldn't be on the internet after all...
SW-User
That would be a big fat no
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Should anyone be allowed to access the internet?
NineLives · 41-45, F
I don't know. Should they? I'm asking opinions.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@NineLives: me too

 
Post Comment