Metallis · 26-30, M
Tell us about your past, from there we can figure out your "triggered assertiveness" reaction's origins
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Metallis · 26-30, M
Sounds to me like you think too low of yourself. You lack confidence in your abilities regardless of the fact that you have these "assertive" moments that are proof that you are very capable of managing yourself. I guess if you ever have doubt, just look back at those moments?
dark548 · M
@Metallis: true true, I'm guessing the the task I was up against was beyond the scope of my abilities. I mean I can be "strong" but somethings were just beyond, I was not prepared. Anyway thank you for your concern and response 👌
Metallis · 26-30, M
Yeah sure I think you got it there. Shouldn't feel bad about things you couldn't possibly have made any better.
BlueDiver · 41-45, M
It sounds like you're separating the assertiveness from yourself - like it's coming into you in a way that's completely outside of your control. The feelings and experiences that arise within you don't come from somewhere else - they come from you. They're a part of who you are.