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Was I rude?

So I was talking to. A colleague and I was saying that I was nervous about dying my hair. This is a person who dyes her hair pink.
As you know I've already gone blonde and I've also gone red. But after discussion with 'him' we've decided that I should go Ginger. Also I've never dyed the whole head only sections.
She did ask me how long it will take and I said 3 hours and she said it was the same for her too.

Anyways I mentioned that my partner is ginger and Bruno being a Boston terrier and brown we would be matching. But I also said he said we'd be the outcast crew!
She didn't say anything in response to that but I get the feeling that some people might think I'm racist... Since I'm the minority in the workplace.

When I didnt mean it maliciously, it was meant to be a little joke!

With hindsight I probably shouldn't have said that.
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WhateverWorks · 36-40
Probably best to just casually mention to them that you didn’t mean any offense ane realized later that the joke might not have landed well. sometimes it’s more about ways we can all be considerate of each other rather than worrying over whether something is necessarily rude or not objectively.
Banksy83 · 41-45, M
Mell just explain you meant no offence and dont dwell on it
SW-User
It wasn't rude, you meant to make a joking comment. You didn't do a bad thing at all. Hopefully she will laugh at what you said, once she thinks about it and that you meant no ill intent
exchrist · 31-35
I do this hindsight regret thing far too often If some is going to get offended they will find a way whether u give them one or not
Carissimi · F
It’s in your mind. Stop worrying. It’s nothing.
maiohy · 18-21, F
People should learn to take a joke

 
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