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KiwiDan · 31-35, M
Please advice me. I'm sad and smol and unlovable
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@KiwiDan You need to find some self-confidence and to do so a part of that is incrementally building on things you may have some inclination and be good at, and putting in hours. Also just like, getting out there and finding social scenes through community groups or volunteering or whatever. It's not easy, but you gotta build up. Start small, but start doing new stuff that helps you build yourself up.
"Nobody will ever want me" is a self-fulfilling prophecy. And getting out of that mindset means focusing on new stuff.
"Nobody will ever want me" is a self-fulfilling prophecy. And getting out of that mindset means focusing on new stuff.