have you ever met someone who is a lot like yourself?

whys that?

@theowl: Agreed, very wise words.

It took a huge loss and my family sitting me down and saying "You're not at fault, you've done nothing wrong" for me to realize I needed to leave him.

yeah i tried so hard to keep my friendship with that girl there was nothing i could do to keep it. i was always nice to her. it was all that dumb lifestyle she was living. her parents were very much against it and she pushed her father away and his side of the family. idk why i care about someone who is so completely crazy it was the part that i seen so much of myself in her except that certain aspect of her life. and let that pain eat at me when i lost her even when people say just let her go.

@theowl: I completely understand 😔

same with the female version. and stupid thing is i still cant get that bastard out of my head.

@theowl: They were my best friend for years, and I still love them, but ... ah well. 🙂

yeah i know the feeling. 😓