have you ever met someone who is a lot like yourself?

you guys stopped talking?

@theowl: Yes, broke up actually.

aww im sorry. i new a girl who was a lot like me but there was a big difference im closed off and she was a huge fuck girl. because i wasnt a fuck boy she cut ties.

@theowl: I'm sorry to hear that. He was mean, cold. The one thing I could never be, and I just couldn't take it anymore.

thats how that girl turned out to be. she was really sweet at first. like how i usually am. but then soon as i caught her in lies and what her lifestyle really was. the whole fooling around and stringing along hundreds of men she got down right viscous.

@theowl: He was downright hateful if I didn't portray myself the way he saw fit, the perfect no flaws woman. As soon as he saw a flaw I had to fix it, but his anger would always show thru. It almost destroyed me.

ouch.. if you truly love someone you love them flaw and all. if they want to change for the better thats their choice to make. love is about sacrificing if what you are doing isnt good for the relationship and if you care for someone you fix it but you dont force someone to change thats not love.

@theowl: Agreed, very wise words.

It took a huge loss and my family sitting me down and saying "You're not at fault, you've done nothing wrong" for me to realize I needed to leave him.

yeah i tried so hard to keep my friendship with that girl there was nothing i could do to keep it. i was always nice to her. it was all that dumb lifestyle she was living. her parents were very much against it and she pushed her father away and his side of the family. idk why i care about someone who is so completely crazy it was the part that i seen so much of myself in her except that certain aspect of her life. and let that pain eat at me when i lost her even when people say just let her go.

@theowl: I completely understand 😔