Some idiot guys kept looking at me and said “I love a woman with junk in the trunk”. I just walked off. Is that harassment?
He kept trying to get to know me and wanted to know my name, where I am from. He wanted to take me out sometime. He said I’m very beautiful. Why would any man want to go out with a big ass, tall woman? I’m overweight (257lbs) and I’m 5’11”3/4. I kept trying to avoid him and I was going to the bus stop. Why does he keep trying to get to know me. I can’t believe a guy would have the nerve to approach me.
I told my sister about it and she said, “Well did you want to give him your number? It sounded like he found you very attractive. You know not all guys find smaller or slimmer women attractive. You don’t need to make a big deal out of it, unless they’re harassing you. Just keep your cool and ACT like an adult woman. You can’t act like a kid. You gotta be an adult about this. Stop flipping out. I’d some guys find you attractive, they WILL look. Get used to it, it will happen.
My brother said, “Well he probably finds you very attractive. I mean you are a pretty young woman so of course guys are going to notice. Just watch yourself. Most men will want to just get into your pants. You don’t need to flip out every time a guy finds you beautiful. Quit tripping!
Why didn’t they said that’s horrible and flipped out? I wasn’t expecting them to be okay with it and say I’m attractive.
That won’t happen again. If I was under 18 they would have flipped out.
I’m 19 going on 20 next month. I’m a teenager!
I told my sister about it and she said, “Well did you want to give him your number? It sounded like he found you very attractive. You know not all guys find smaller or slimmer women attractive. You don’t need to make a big deal out of it, unless they’re harassing you. Just keep your cool and ACT like an adult woman. You can’t act like a kid. You gotta be an adult about this. Stop flipping out. I’d some guys find you attractive, they WILL look. Get used to it, it will happen.
My brother said, “Well he probably finds you very attractive. I mean you are a pretty young woman so of course guys are going to notice. Just watch yourself. Most men will want to just get into your pants. You don’t need to flip out every time a guy finds you beautiful. Quit tripping!
Why didn’t they said that’s horrible and flipped out? I wasn’t expecting them to be okay with it and say I’m attractive.
That won’t happen again. If I was under 18 they would have flipped out.
I’m 19 going on 20 next month. I’m a teenager!
22-25, F
