Also when youre poor it's hard to hang out witu friends because you cant afford to go out or do anything

Here's what my former sister-in-law and friends and neighbors used to do: they hosted pot luck suppers. Everyone who came would bring ONE dish, and the host or hostess would make a big pasta casserole with cheese, and they would rotate, so that everyone had one weekend every 4 to six weeks. That way they all got to see one another, and have a small party.

PS. The advantage of doing this is that the hostess gets to keep ALL the leftovers!