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My friend is angry and yelled at me for it. I didn’t do anything!

Yesterday I said what’s up to my friend and she gave a bored “hey” and I asked how she was. She said her job cut her hours to four days a week instead of 6 and I didn’t hear the rest. I thought it was a good thing but she said, “No! It’s NOT! They cut my hours and I need the money!” She looked upset with me and walked off. I thought they we’re giving her a break from working so many hours. I told her I was sorry but she didn’t hear. I think she’s very upset with me and didn’t speak to me for the rest of the day. It isn’t my fault. I felt bad for her but I misunderstood. Has that happened to you?
I couldn’t stop crying because……I didn’t know why I was. Pathetic me. I always feel like I did something wrong. I tried to say bye and sorry for what happened, she didn’t look my way.
jfox4anr · 46-50, M
She took out her frustrations on you, she needs to grow up, its called adulting, and I agree with the other posts she owes you an apology, when you cease being her doormat she will change her attitude towards you. You dont owe her a thing, she will get over it, life goes on, dont seek validation from people that treat you like crap.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@jfox4anr that’s why I stayed away from her for the rest of the day. When she left, I said bye to her and apologized again, BUT she didn’t look my way and just walked off. I know she was talking to some other people but it’s kind of a sign that she was ignoring me. I guess she was pretty upset about it but I don’t blame her for being upset. She works two jobs.
jfox4anr · 46-50, M
@LaylaTheTallGirl You’re right she had the right to be upset but not to dump her anger and frustrations on you, hopefully she learns that her behavior is unacceptable for dumping on you like that, she misunderstood what you meant that didn’t warrant an apology on your part, but a simple “hey I didn’t mean to offend you” should have sufficed…if shes mature enough she will come around and realize her mistake.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@jfox4anr She never apologized
ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP
She was upset at her situation, not with you. However, she took it out on you. She owes you an apology. If she apologies, tell her you understand.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@ProfessorPlum77 I mean I don’t blame her for being upset. I would be too but I wish she didn’t take it out on me. She didn’t yell though. She used a stern voice. I mean we all misunderstand things sometimes right?

 
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