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Is this rude?

"I'm single not desperate..."
It鈥檚 unkind
Zaphod4246-50, M
If your goal is to make certain they never speak to you again under any circumstances, That would do it
RupertCornelius36-40, M
in middle school a girl asked me, "hey, you, would you be my boyfriend? oh god i'm so fucking desperate." then when i ignored her she hit me in the face with her purse. fun times.
ozgirl51226-30, F
Could be...
SW-User
Only if the person doing the pursuing is bald, fat, and ugly
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard If they are picky about looks. I have missed out on some committed relationships for either being too fat, ugly, bald, and broke :)
@SW-User Sounds like they were rather superficial. 馃檨
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard Yeah, mean people suck
Piper61-69, F
More like brutal, seems to me. Not that saying it to someone wouldn't be justified sometimes, though.
eyenoM
No, ms. Mellow not at all rude....,

Sometimes:
Its not about finding the right one, its about being the right one....,
ViperM
Depends on the context, I would say sarcastic... but sarcastic can be rude, but not nessarily.
Whyme46-50, M
Its better to just cut the cord in one swoop n get it over with the let him down easy just delays the pain
Axelerator26-30, M
i think almost everyone would see it as bit rude, unless the person knew you well maybe
exchrist31-35
clearly not desperate, but a bit offensive right they could have just said no
Perhaps a bit. Did you say it to someone ? 馃き
exchrist31-35
@Mellowgirl i'd say not rude at all; that's your determination
ElisbchM
Well said .. @Mellowgirl

In the context he asked you, imho... your response was not rude. He is.
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@Elisbch thank you x
gdon3941-45, M
Where did that come from? A bit saucy but what ever.
LadyJF
I'd say its quite soul destroying 馃槒馃槀
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
Yeah that's rude 馃槀
SW-User
Not at all
SW-User
basilfawlty8931-35, M
Bit mean. If the person was being creepy, I'd understand it, but if it's just simple rejection, that's taking it too far.
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@basilfawlty89 actually, the person asked why I only went to coffee with the two other dates I had. And why I didn't see them again.
I said I wasny really feeling them that I didn't click with them. There was no chemistry.
He say but why just coffee and nothing more?
I said I don't know guys like these Mon committal meet ups...
So he said that's weird...
I said "well not really,I'm single not desperate!"
basilfawlty8931-35, M
@Mellowgirl ah okay. Well, that changes the context entirely. It wasn't mean then.
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@basilfawlty89 lol I thought context might alter things...
MonaReeves8636-40, F
Why what happened?
Mellowgirl31-35, F
@MonaReeves86 please read my response to basil fawlty or bijouxb.. Thank you
MonaReeves8636-40, F
@Mellowgirl I don鈥檛 know where that is
Mellowgirl31-35, F
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LilnonamesF
Sometimes you must remind the desparite one this

 
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