Is this rude?

@bijouxbroussard the person asked why I only went to coffee with the two other dates I had. And why I didn't see them again.
I said I wasn't really feeling them that I didn't click with them. There was no chemistry.
He asked, but why just coffee and nothing more?
I said "I don't know guys like these non committal meet ups..."
So he said that's weird...
I said "well not really,I'm single not desperate!"

@Mellowgirl Okay, so [b]he[/b] kept pushing the issue. Often, over coffee is certainly enough of an opportunity to get a sense of someone.

@bijouxbroussard precisely.
I think he's perhaps using my conversation as a pointer. A way to up his 'game' and prospects.

I'm not particularly interested in helping him to date others. It's simple either you like me or... Not!

Some people think it's maybe conversation but these days people are so calculating they use every opportunity to be able to cast their net successfully.
The intention isn't about finding one quality person it's about find quantity.

@Mellowgirl i'd say not rude at all; that's your determination

Well said .. @Mellowgirl

In the context he asked you, imho... your response was not rude. He is.

@Elisbch thank you x