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I'm almost 45, and have pretty much been single my whole life.

I always wanted a guy up till just the last few months since I started seeing a guy. I realized, I've been single so long, I could never actually live with a guy. Would cramp my style. And just stuff like me hopping in the car with someone. Nope.. I can't stand not having control of the car. When I'm not all by myself, I feel out of my element

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Gusman · 61-69, M

Many people have the same feelings.
Being alone for so long we become uncomfortable when inviting someone else into our personal space.
I tried living with someone after being alone for 20 years and went so crazy in my head that I pulled away and went back to solo living.