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How can I convince my best friend to move in with us?

I mean she had a good job but she鈥檚 making excuses that she still can鈥檛 afford to move out but I told her that we can split the rent so she doesn鈥檛 have to pay so much. Every time I bring it up and want to discuss it with her she always gets an attitude and change the subject. She doesn鈥檛 want to live with mommy and daddy forever does she?
I鈥檓 not trying to push her but I was trying to encourage her to get out of her comfort zone and start living and becoming an adult. Cousin says that it would be a great idea for her to get her comfort zone and make sure she鈥檚 ready. She鈥檚 the only one that I asked to be roomies because number one, I trust her a lot more than anyone else, two i鈥檝e known her since childhood and three she鈥檚 never done anything to go behind my back. The other friend we had left us. She鈥檚 the only one that I trust besides my cousin that I live with. It鈥檚 up to her though.
Rent is not bad it鈥檚 only $700 a month.
My cousin and I split the rent, $350 each so if she decides to move in with us the it would be about, $233.3333 whatever each. I鈥檒l just say $233. It isn鈥檛 bad. That鈥檚 why I keep telling her to have an open mind and don鈥檛 give up so easily and there鈥檚 always affordable places.
take a hint.. she is being nice trying to ovoid the real answer ..
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@markansas Haha very funny. I told her if she鈥檚 ready then she can. She did say in the past that she wants to be roommates but I don鈥檛 know why she鈥檚 backing out now
@PetiteJulie01 this was to help you . not a joke .
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@markansas I can鈥檛 take a hit but she said that she wanted to be roommate a long time ago.
smiler201256-60
{@juleskitykat] from her point of view you are right she does not want to go from home a comfort zone . it is that intial breaking away from the home enviroment . all fledglings fly the nest eventually 馃槅 coming from someone who is still at home his self
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@smiler2012 but every time I ask her if she wants to be roommates she doesn鈥檛 answer
smiler201256-60
@PetiteJulie01 well if she appears to fudge the question i would say that is your answer and would respect her wishes and let it go
SatanBurger36-40, F
You should respect her, if you keep being too pushy she might push you away. It's her decision. If she knows the offer is on the table then it's up to her to take it.
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@SatanBurger i鈥檓 not being pushy. I know she鈥檚 not ready and I said when she鈥檚 ready to move out then they will be open spot for her. My cousin says that I shouldn鈥檛 take a personal if she doesn鈥檛 want to. She did say she wanted to be roommates when we were younger so I don鈥檛 know why she鈥檚 backing out.
SatanBurger36-40, F
@PetiteJulie01 Yeah I wouldn't take it too personal, she's got her own reasons.
GuyWithOpinions31-35, M
Leave a trail of corn nuts to your house. Have a net handy. Once you got her bagged take the rent and release her back into society.
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@GuyWithOpinions hahahahahaha
Let people be on their own. So called democracy is there for a reason.
SW-User
Leave her alone
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@SW-User I just ask you a question! I just asked her right now she wanted to be rumors but she doesn鈥檛 answer. Every time I ask her that she does not answer, it irritates the hell out of me. It鈥檚 not like I ask her every day
PetiteJulie0122-25, F
@mysteryespresso I鈥檓 not going to bribe her

 
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