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Do you self sabotage?

I'm so used to being rejected that, I've noticed any time something seems to be going OK. I do something to mess it up.

This then in turn makes situations turn for the worst giving me an excuse to walk away.

I don't want to be this way.
And I am trying to do better.

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Gusman · 61-69, M

I used to do that for years.
I called it my self destruct mechanism.
What I found was that I needed self belief in myself.
When I realised I was a valuable human being worthy of acceptance then the self destruction ceased.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Gusman I'm working on it