Have you ever cheated or thought about cheating while in a relationship?
I'm curious. I've never been in a relationship, but I find relationships fascinating.
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NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
achangeofplan · 36-40, M
I agree with this, but I havent been so smart in the past
NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
@Theonlyone: Just what I personally believe, but I can see it from the other point of view as well. Sometimes people get caught up in emotions and don't think rationally and can't help but do things even if they know it's wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. While I've never cheated or thought of cheating I've probably done things just as bad while being in a failing relationship. When relationships aren't working people tend to have a lack of judgement.
achangeofplan · 36-40, M
@NaturallyPeculiar: also if you have been with someone a long time and have a house and family, and if the relationships abusive it can be hard to leave. Cheating can be a release
ManicMicah · 26-30, M
@NaturallyPeculiar: You are right about the being caught up in emotions part. I cheated on my boyfriend with my friend who started to like me. I had fallen so hard for him. I kept telling myself, "This is only going to happen once, then never again, I don't have to worry." It made me feel better. But I wasn't right for what I did.