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Have you ever cheated or thought about cheating while in a relationship?

I'm curious. I've never been in a relationship, but I find relationships fascinating.
NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
Nope. If a relationship isn't working out then don't look for what your missing from someone else, just leave.
NaturallyPeculiar · 26-30, F
@Theonlyone: Just what I personally believe, but I can see it from the other point of view as well. Sometimes people get caught up in emotions and don't think rationally and can't help but do things even if they know it's wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. While I've never cheated or thought of cheating I've probably done things just as bad while being in a failing relationship. When relationships aren't working people tend to have a lack of judgement.
achangeofplan · 36-40, M
@NaturallyPeculiar: also if you have been with someone a long time and have a house and family, and if the relationships abusive it can be hard to leave. Cheating can be a release
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
@NaturallyPeculiar: You are right about the being caught up in emotions part. I cheated on my boyfriend with my friend who started to like me. I had fallen so hard for him. I kept telling myself, "This is only going to happen once, then never again, I don't have to worry." It made me feel better. But I wasn't right for what I did.
achangeofplan · 36-40, M
Yes in two of my relationships. Both werent working out.
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
Sadly, I cheated on my ex boyfriend. I know it wasn't right. I kept trying to convince myself that what I did wasn't wrong. I felt so bad. The relationship didn't work out, of course. But we both moved on.
What was the reason behind you cheating? I'm curious. Was it because you felt caged?
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
@TheUnknown: Kind of...I just wanted someone else. We didn't live near each other, I was catching feelings for a friend of mine and he was starting to like me as well. Me and my boyfriend broke up because I didn't want to cheat. Me and my friend fooled around, but then he convinced me I should get back together with my ex. We did date again...but I ended up wanting my friend so badly that I ended up cheating.
@TheDarkestZero: Interesting.
SW-User
I never considered our relationship real. He was clearly using me and didn't like me.
So while you were with hi, you looked at other guys, even imagined being with them instead of your partner?
SW-User
Yeah. He was probably doing the same. I mean, I'm hideous and I don't blame him.
@taehyun: I see.
MasterDvdC · 61-69, M
I never have but I thought about it once. My late wife was in a nursing home for several years before she died and I thought about it then but never did it.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
No. NEVER EVER!!!
But I´ve seen that I was wrong. I was a really, really fool. It would have been better if I would have cheated.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Nope, but was with a man who bad poor impulse control, and cheated on me. Seemingly without any hesitation or guilt.
SW-User
Unfortunately I have thought that but I'll never have the chance to thank goodness
MichelleLee · 26-30, T
cheat for a girl in yoga pants if u are cheating
SW-User
I did..because im an idiot..
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