How do you interpret this behaviour? . A person will at every opportunity attempt to throw you...

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How do you interpret this behaviour?

. A person will at every opportunity attempt to throw you shade. . Then gaslight you into thinking they weren't being mean by doing something small but nice, only to throw shade at a later time. . Try to convince you everyone around you doesn't...

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kimberly · 56-60, T

they aren't 'frenemies', there's no such word. either they're good for you, in which case, they are, or can be conciderd friends. or, they hurt you, in which case, they are most definitely not your friends. when they stab you in the back, or, betray your friendship, then they are enemies. plain and simple, with no middle ground.

Ynotjenn · F

That’s what we call a frenemy.

They keep you close so they can hold you back. They will always try to make you feel “less than”…

Friend? Lover? Family? They’re toxic. And at some point in life you have to learn to cut ties from toxic people…no matter how close you may be

PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F

Big breath…

As someone who has sooo many broken pieces within that they not only allow those pieces to stay scattered instead of trying to repair whatever has been broken within them, but that they want others to feel as lost and displaced as they are…possibly even more just so they can feel that they have power over something…someone since they obviously don’t have it over their own healing.

AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

I don't know how sum it up well, but they sound manipulative, deeply insecure, and lonely. Like they only feel good when they are bringing someone else down.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@AmbivalentFriability I don't get it!
I hear what you are saying but I don't get why they act like this with a person that chooses to be in their life

AmbivalentFriability · 26-30

@Mellowgirl I don't get it either honestly, sounds extremely messed up.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@AmbivalentFriability I know you said not to but I did. You don't have to reply

BalmyNites · F

Narcissist

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

Sounds like someone, I would try very hard to avoid...😔

LadyBronte · 56-60, F

Narcissistic, controlling behavior. Separate you from everyone you care about, leaving you with no options or alternatives except him. Run fast. Run far. Lock the door.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@LadyBronte that's a real darn shame!

LadyBronte · 56-60, F

@Mellowgirl People like that deserve no consideration.

Lostpoet · M

Damn that sounds like so many people I once new.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

All I said was I think the neighbours are annoyed by your singing voice.

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