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How do you interpret this behaviour?

. A person will at every opportunity attempt to throw you shade.

. Then gaslight you into thinking they weren't being mean by doing something small but nice, only to throw shade at a later time.

. Try to convince you everyone around you doesn't have good intentions by pointing out flaws in their behaviour.

. Plant seeds of doubt by talking only about all the negative stuff that goes on in the a world or surrounding area.

. Do all the things they know you don't like

. Catching looks that don't look genuine, like smirks when something bad happens to you, or if you did something for them that they probably calculated/manipulated you to do.

. Offer to help but spend their time trying to distract you.

. Hype you up only to knock you down woth back handed compliments or mean jokes
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I don't know how sum it up well, but they sound manipulative, deeply insecure, and lonely. Like they only feel good when they are bringing someone else down.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@AmbivalentFriability I don't get it!
I hear what you are saying but I don't get why they act like this with a person that chooses to be in their life
@Mellowgirl I don't get it either honestly, sounds extremely messed up.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@AmbivalentFriability I know you said not to but I did. You don't have to reply