That’s so invasive and inappropriate. I’m sorry :( I can understand being around controlling family members. It’s frustrating and draining mentally.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@Stark And then she sits there and whines that we aren't close but she's constantly doing crazy shit like this. Dealing with her is so exhausting
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
Looks like she's just trying to cause drama
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@deadgerbil Like alwaysss. I know when I confront her she's going to act like its not a big deal and say "he texted me first" get mad at me for saying anything😒
Viper · M
If you can... secretly sneak into one or both of their phones, and block their numbers from each other.
Yeah... that's an invasion of privacy but so is what they're doing...
Also, I don't know your situation dynamic is, but you also need to make sure they NEVER EVER hook up (I've seen it happen, just saying).
Good luck!
Yeah... that's an invasion of privacy but so is what they're doing...
Also, I don't know your situation dynamic is, but you also need to make sure they NEVER EVER hook up (I've seen it happen, just saying).
Good luck!
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Oh wow she doesn’t know anything about boundaries. Stop her now. My mother tried to ruin my marriage by doing something very similar with my ex

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Omg that's really odd. Can you delete or block his number on her phone?
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@SW-User that's what I'm going to do. My brothers gf is going to help me block him next time she comes over on fb by distracting her

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@SkeetSkeet good, that's just an insane situation
maybe they are ahving an aaffair
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
why is she doing this? Is she a narcissist who has to interfere and control people? Had close relatives who kept inviting my ex over and I told them flat out the only reason he was coming over was to manipulate and dig for information and to stop because I divorced him and would never consider going back.. I was at the point that if it continued my visits to them would have been on holidays only and that I wouldn’t be revealing much of anything about my life to them. It was so damn obvious because he never wanted to visit them with me when we were married.
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cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
@SkeetSkeet that is hell to deal with. She is probably telling him everything that you say to her. Which could be played with by you or maybe if you don’t want to do that just don’t tell her anything about your life since she is playing a game over you.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@cherokeepatti We have a very distant relationship because of her behaviour already. I dont even let her know the name of the places I work at. It's just effed up because she knows he wont leave me alone already so she's just giving him hope that we could get back together by talking to him. He blows up my phone after every time they talk to like try and show off.
I would lose my mind if my family invited my ex over to the house
I would lose my mind if my family invited my ex over to the house
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
@SkeetSkeet Good thing you don’t tell her about your workplaces…the less info she has the better, she’s feeding him everything she knows I’d bet on that. It’s hard to even have a relationship with someone who does these things. I sure feel for you.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well just tell your ex to block her number the text will go through but he will never get them. But why is she texting your ex?
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Moms a blabber mouth . She’s just proud of her girl is all
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@cherokeepatti moms a total narcissist and control freak . She’s ashamed of her girl is all . Lol
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@AthrillatheHunt Okay but again he's a Ex so he is out of her life or is the mother trying to get them back together?
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@updown2020 mom is sinister with very nefarious motives. Patty told me so .
But Ashley in third period science class told me she’s just proud of her daughter . Even though she’s the reason the relationship ship wheee
But Ashley in third period science class told me she’s just proud of her daughter . Even though she’s the reason the relationship ship wheee
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry she is doing that. It’s so intrusive.

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That's very interfering, wow, she needs to stop it












