My mother wont stop texting my ex and it's infuriating
I know this is going to turn into a fight when I tell her she needs to stop. He doesn't need to know about my life jfc
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cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
why is she doing this? Is she a narcissist who has to interfere and control people? Had close relatives who kept inviting my ex over and I told them flat out the only reason he was coming over was to manipulate and dig for information and to stop because I divorced him and would never consider going back.. I was at the point that if it continued my visits to them would have been on holidays only and that I wouldn’t be revealing much of anything about my life to them. It was so damn obvious because he never wanted to visit them with me when we were married.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@cherokeepatti Yes pretty much. I have no idea why she does half the things she does...she just likes trying to have control over everyone in her life
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
@SkeetSkeet that is hell to deal with. She is probably telling him everything that you say to her. Which could be played with by you or maybe if you don’t want to do that just don’t tell her anything about your life since she is playing a game over you.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@cherokeepatti We have a very distant relationship because of her behaviour already. I dont even let her know the name of the places I work at. It's just effed up because she knows he wont leave me alone already so she's just giving him hope that we could get back together by talking to him. He blows up my phone after every time they talk to like try and show off.
I would lose my mind if my family invited my ex over to the house
I would lose my mind if my family invited my ex over to the house
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
@SkeetSkeet Good thing you don’t tell her about your workplaces…the less info she has the better, she’s feeding him everything she knows I’d bet on that. It’s hard to even have a relationship with someone who does these things. I sure feel for you.