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I hate them
quietfighter · 26-30, M
@SW-User I get ya

SW-User
They’re unnecessary, if you appreciate your friend then show them personally or tell them via DM. It’s not so much about appreciating someone as making a statement to the whole community. My friends know how much I appreciate them, I don’t need to make a public post about it
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@SW-User True. It's kind of like being randomly put on the spot in front of the whole class...lol.

SW-User
@SubstantialKick I just wonder what the motivation is…I’ve seen people make appreciation posts about some of my friends and I know they’ve barely interacted with them. Likewise people who comment on them - what’s the point? Is it just to give someone an ego boost? To try and garner popularity? I just don’t get it, I’d rather my relationships are more genuine
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@SW-User Well my intention would be to let someone know that I care. It would definitely be someone who I frequently interact with though or else it would kind of awkward 😂.
Miram · 31-35, F
I don't allow that in any of my appreciation threads. If I am friends with someone and you have EVIDENCE that they wronged you, send it to me in PM and submit it to the admins.
Don't try to use my content to hurt others while I am clueless about your true motivation.
While I am not the sort that is too scared to take a stand against abuse because the abusive is my friend, I am also not the sort that'd allow false victims' narratives.
Don't try to use my content to hurt others while I am clueless about your true motivation.
While I am not the sort that is too scared to take a stand against abuse because the abusive is my friend, I am also not the sort that'd allow false victims' narratives.
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
i was really grateful for them in the past but now i’m terrified of what people would say about me. if i were to do one for someone else, i’d just monitor it for drama. different posts can have different purposes and if you have a genuine problem with my friend dm me
Miram · 31-35, F
@ginnyfromtheblock Sorry that it is worrying. I guess it's the realization that many people here are unreliable and would let bullying happen just for entertainment.
We can matter so little to those who matter a great deal to us.
We can matter so little to those who matter a great deal to us.
ExtremeNext · 36-40
Nobody ever gives me one 😫
Oster1 · M
@ExtremeNext Awww, now I want to write you a nice one up.🤔
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@ExtremeNext Me either 😕.
bijouxbroussard · F
They’re a nice thought. But like the fan groups established in EP, people can use them to express grievances against the person being honored just as easily.

SW-User
@bijouxbroussard it always seems to happen
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard Yep, I've seen that before. I had to delete an appreciation post once because it started to get out of control, lol.

SW-User
@SubstantialKick I never make them, can't say I ever did either

SW-User
Ehhh... I was overwhelmed the one day where there it was like every other post.
Gets annoying but it's whatever
Gets annoying but it's whatever

SW-User
Lmao, I just posted this question a hour ago
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@SW-User Oh s**t 😂...

SW-User
@SubstantialKick How do you feel about posts about sw users, even when posted with good intentions?... Oops that was supposed to be a link
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User Can I be your lawyer to sue Danny boy?
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
They're an indicator of who is not waging war against who. 😆 Although, probably not very efficient since that state can probably change quicker than April's weather.
HannahSky · F
Seems like the people who could really use the positive feedback never get them. That's all I'm going to say.
Selah ·
Theyre nice usually.
Its easy to just delete a unflattering comment but people let it drag on and on and pretend they hate "gossip".
Its easy to just delete a unflattering comment but people let it drag on and on and pretend they hate "gossip".
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Lilymoon · F
I guess it gives people a chance to vent their hatred. There's always one in the crowd. 🙄
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
I love Them.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@JohnOinger You are the king of them 😁.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Now that depreciated quickly. Phew.
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Dusty101 · F
They're fine. Don't like bad things been said on them though!
I am a culprit of saying something bad on one years ago, I learnt my lesson!
I am a culprit of saying something bad on one years ago, I learnt my lesson!
Dan193 · 31-35, M
I hate them, because they're never about me.
@Dan193 i thought that you two is the same guy
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@YukikoAmagi We get that a lot. The benefit for me is, that I can be on hiatus for long periods of time, and when I come back people are still nice and open to me.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@YukikoAmagi I read that before, lol.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I've never done one and never will. Mostly because I'm rarely here anywhere and two it's just creating some high school clique mentality. No wonder gossip happens lol.
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
nobody's done one for me :(
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
@ExtremeNext noooooo :( why does no one love us
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@Longpatrol Same 🤷🏾♂️. It seems like it's the more "popular" users who get them.
ExtremeNext · 36-40
@Longpatrol I know maybe we should just 🔪 everybody
SapphicHeart · F
Then why do them?
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@SapphicHeart It's just nice to let someone know that you care 🤷♂️.
SapphicHeart · F
@SubstantialKick
Really, also when you risk it all blowing up? I prefer not being mentioned in any posts.
Really, also when you risk it all blowing up? I prefer not being mentioned in any posts.
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SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@MonaLisa86 22, actually.
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Ingwe · F
I like them for anyone else but myself
I just want to be left alone lol
I just want to be left alone lol

SW-User
Rich in psychoanalytical material.

SW-User
They seem kind of shallow to be honest

SW-User
I find them cheesy and silly to be honest.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
It’s nice to get complimented and show people you care but it’s always just singling out one person. I have never had one done about me and I don’t expect that I ever will.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@iamonfire696 Same here.
Lilnonames · F
I dont do them