Is it in bad taste If someone says they bought you something but they give it to someone else?...

KingofPizza2 · 41-45, M

If they told you they were getting you something, and then didn't give it to you? Yeah that's kind of an unnecessary letdown they're dropping on you yeah.

SW-User

sorry for butting in so late but after reading over your comments I have to say that the person who did this to you was being extremely insensitive and rude..
thier dismissive indifference is inexcusable..
their not your friend.. you should probably treat them accordingly.... jmo..

beckandcall · 41-45

Maybe not in bad taste that they did it, but definitely in bad taste that they actually told you they did.

SW-User

i'd just tell them , no problem. I've done the same thing when I got you something.

SW-User

It's subjective. I would understand, I guess.

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

That is definitely BAD TASTE! Yes!!!

SW-User

Maybe they realized you own that thing already 🤔

LucyFuhr · 56-60, F

Tell them to go tell it to the person they gave it to...
You don't get brownie points for "intention" ;)

bijouxbroussard · F

I'd wonder what their motive was in both doing that and then telling you about it. How were they expecting you to feel ? 😕

Goralski · 56-60, M

Women

PoizonApple · 41-45, F

Yes. But I do it a lot :(

Nefarious · 26-30, M

Pretty sure

thinkincubes · 41-45

that's just fucking mean, you guys are way too tolerant 😤