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What should I talk about when I reconnect with someone?

I've been trying my best to re-enter social life since things have been opening up. One of my problems is I don't have anything positive or exciting going on in my life right now, but I don't want to complain or be negative. What should I talk about?

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OogieBoogie · F

If you find it hard to start or keep conversations going for lack of inspiring topics ....ask questions about the other person .

Asking questions can be like throwing a pebble in a pond ...it creates conversational ripples .
A story might be told about childhood, and memories and family and fun. Suddenly four new topics are there to branched upon .

We love talking about ourselves ....its a common human trait .

blindbob · 41-45

@OogieBoogie yeah, that's the problem. i always have to drive the conversation. i have to ask ALL the questions otherwise, nothing. it's draining. i just can't move to the next level with a guy if i don't feel like i'm getting anything back.