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Looking for advice!

In a little over a year I'll be 40. I'm unmarried, single, childless, and friendless. I'm depressed and overweight. Overdue for a promotion. Still renting. I've been working on all 8 things for the past 5 years, trying to make some improvement, but I'll make a few steps forward and then take several steps back. Why??? My life is not as terrible as it seems, btw, but what gives?

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Well it has to be said, you probably picked the hardest period of modern history in which to try and make improvements 😄 given the economic crisis; covid; Trump etc.

For somebody your age I’d suggest you give yourself a clean slate.

Figure out where you want to be and what you want to do and just go for it !

What type of environment do you want to live in ? City; Town; Country; Beach ?

What type of living do you want to make ?

Try and figure these out and then research a bunch of places that might be worth looking at

blindbob · 41-45

@Picklebobble2 I did that 2 years ago: Moved to a new city, got a new job, but then, yeah, the pandemic hit and stopped everything in its tracks.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@blindbob No reason why you can’t reassess !
Millions in the same position you can bet they’re doing exactly the same !