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What should I do here?

I have a reckless little brother, he's 28 and live couple of states away. He did drugs, got in a lot of trouble with the law and just can't keep a steady job or a relationship. When he was 25, he slept with a 14yo and knocked her up and then disappeared. The little girl never told her parents who got her pregnant so they never reported it.

Now after 3 years, he's calling me up asking for a place to stay and telling me he's a much better person and that he's asking me to help him get back on his feet. Yooo, this dude is really something else
SW-User
I can't even let my older brother anywhere near me. I'd focus on your girl and baby. He's an adult.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Don't let others drag you down, dude. You're not a god; if he wants saving, he'll have to save himself.
curiosi · 61-69, F
If I remember correctly you are expecting. The stress upon you right now is tremendous and who really knows if your brother is changed. They do have a tendency to manipulate.
Indifferent · 36-40, M
@curiosi yes, my gf is pregnant and I'm already exhausted with her. I just don't know what he's capable of
curiosi · 61-69, F
@Indifferent Her being under stress isn't good for the baby. As you pointed out you don't know what he is capable of.
SW-User
What you gonna do ? Do u love him enough to let him into your home ? Seems like a tough situation
SW-User
@SW-User if I had a brother like that .. which I kinda do . And my own life and he just came out the blue with his bullshit .. I’m too much of a nice person to just turn my back on him .. but that’s me
Indifferent · 36-40, M
@SW-User Idk though, IDK how my girl would react and she's also preggo so I don't want to stress her out or anything like that
SW-User
@Indifferent let him know you starting a family .. and you already have to give your girl 100% of your time and not be worrying about. Then again easier said then done .. best of luck to ya 🙂
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
I would have given 1 chance for sure.

 
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