Kragoth135 · 31-35, M
Context please. Get back at him for what ?
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SW-User
You should walk right up to him and look in his face. That alone will make a coward that picks on women and children think twice then tell him.
I'd be like " I understand you've been yelling at my wife and children. Tell me what you're problem is so I can take care of it for you."
I'd also make him aware that he's not to do it.
I'd be like " I understand you've been yelling at my wife and children. Tell me what you're problem is so I can take care of it for you."
I'd also make him aware that he's not to do it.
Notauser · 36-40, M
@SW-User that’s a good one. Very reasonable and effective I bet
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
The next time he shouts at your partner or kids, directly confront him in a firm but polite manner.
Ask him what the problem is. If he is reasonable, listen to his side and consider it. If it is something easy to fix or change, go ahead and fix it. Now, he owes you.
If he isn't, or acts like a belligerent asshole, feel free to escalate the issue.
You know how to scrap? Don't be afraid to push the issue if you do, 90% of the time, the other person will back down.
Ask him what the problem is. If he is reasonable, listen to his side and consider it. If it is something easy to fix or change, go ahead and fix it. Now, he owes you.
If he isn't, or acts like a belligerent asshole, feel free to escalate the issue.
You know how to scrap? Don't be afraid to push the issue if you do, 90% of the time, the other person will back down.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Notauser Best of luck with it!
Notauser · 36-40, M
@SumKindaMunster cheers. It’s a shame something made him this way
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Notauser I had a LOT of issues with one of my neighbors years ago when I moved here. I tried being nice, polite, accommodating.
Nothing changed.
It escalated to the point where they sued me for putting up a fence that unfortunately went 2 inches onto their property.
That was the last straw and I totally stood up, brought it to them, counter sued them and went outside whenever their kids were causing troubles and screamed the most obnoxious profanities I could come up with...
...worked totally.
They never, ever bother me know. It's been...8 years? Some of it of course was that their kids grew up, but I do not doubt for a moment that me standing up to them was the point where it got better.
Bullies are lazy cowards. You make it tough for them to dominate or get over on you, they give up and move on to easier prey...
Nothing changed.
It escalated to the point where they sued me for putting up a fence that unfortunately went 2 inches onto their property.
That was the last straw and I totally stood up, brought it to them, counter sued them and went outside whenever their kids were causing troubles and screamed the most obnoxious profanities I could come up with...
...worked totally.
They never, ever bother me know. It's been...8 years? Some of it of course was that their kids grew up, but I do not doubt for a moment that me standing up to them was the point where it got better.
Bullies are lazy cowards. You make it tough for them to dominate or get over on you, they give up and move on to easier prey...
SW-User
lol. Do you live in an apartment complex or a house? How far away is he? AND, why is he an asshole?
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SW-User
@Notauser You're right about that. There's no reason to shout and threaten. I didn't shout at my neighbors. I spoke with them. If I were you, the next time you see him, walk up to him and ask to speak with him. Tell him you'll make a deal with him. That you'll do your best to ensure the kids don't make too much noise in exchange for him to rationally come and talk to you as soon as there's an issue. However, if he chooses to shout and threaten your partner and children again, you're going to immediately file a complaint with both the police and the landlord.
Or, you can just have your partner keep track of the days, time, and words said to her and the children. When you have enough of a list to warrant a complaint against him, file it with the police dept. Let them speak with him and put him on warning.
Or, you can just have your partner keep track of the days, time, and words said to her and the children. When you have enough of a list to warrant a complaint against him, file it with the police dept. Let them speak with him and put him on warning.
Notauser · 36-40, M
@SW-User Thanks I'll make sure they keep track with dates and times that it happens. In the meantime, it's not the first time we've spoken about this and the kids have certainly not escalated their rowdiness. So I'll just have to remind him to be civil and see if that works. I don't need him to like us ;)
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deeply · 36-40, F
Drag him into his garage nail his dick securely to a bench, door frame or something and as you grab a saw he'll inevitably beg you not to cut his dick off, at that point it's imperative to remain calm and say with a smile
"oh you'll be doing that, I'm going to set fire to your garage"
"oh you'll be doing that, I'm going to set fire to your garage"