I don’t appreciate people calling my mother the b word, weak and a lousy woman. That hurts! 😡 Why can’t she be like other moms?!

My mom and I don’t talk. She abandoned us when I was 7. I tried calling her but she never returns my calls but she sends letters. At least I know she’s alive. When I needed her advice on my first period or boys, she never returned my calls at all. Even for emotional support, NOTHING. She would tell me to get over myself and stop expecting her to comfort her for emotional support.

My family tells me to let her go, I’m almost an adult and I’m too old to be crying over a woman that wants nothing to do with my life. My best friend said she is a selfish bitch no offense because of what she did. I yelled at them for calling her that but my best guy friend said, “Well it’s the truth.”
My friends were rude weren’t they?