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Maybe I'm ugly?

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Beauty is subjective but I get a few nice looking guys talking to me, but, a majority who want to do dirty stuff are..not my type. Maybe I'm ugly?

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marsbar · F Best Comment

A lot of men have high libidos, especially in your age range. But what they don’t realize is that many women need that connection first before engaging in anything sexual. A woman’s mind needs to be stimulated first before intimacy can occur.

So no, don’t think that you’re ugly.

I’ve experienced those situations myself. Don’t get pressured into something you’re not comfortable with.

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

@marsbar Great advice. As men get older, it also shifts from a physical to more of a mental stimulation for things to happen. I think it’s more satisfying too.

marsbar · F

@SkullsandBeauty I agree. For me, I need to be attracted to someone both physically & personality-wise. Most times if a guy is just ok to me, if I’m really attracted to his personality, then he starts looking hot to me. So in the end, personality counts more for me. But yeah, there’s gotta be some physical attraction there to begin with.

Mental health is so important to me too, as well as hygiene. And they’ve gotta smell good ALL over since pheromones are a big deal.

Thanks for BC 😇

marsbar · F

@Livingwell Thanks. Yes, I agree. It’s different with a lot of older men.

BlueVeins · 22-25

Nah, if you're gonna judge your looks by those of the people you attract, you'd be wiser to judge by the most attractive rather than the least. If you think of dating as a transaction of appearances -- which is helpful in some contexts -- the most attractive people who are interested in you should be about as attractive (a fair deal), while the uglier ducklings would be the ones tryin' to rip you off.

Not that that's a healthy way to think, but still

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BlueVeins · 22-25

@SkullsandBeauty I'm glad for you g. I've been debating actually getting help when I get home but idk

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@BlueVeins I just got tired of feeling like crap so I changed.

BlueVeins · 22-25

@SkullsandBeauty that should be a book title

SW-User

I don’t think it’s got anything to do with your looks , I know loads of people who I wouldn’t call physically attractive not trying to sound like a bitch but since their personality was decent they had a good relationship.

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@SW-User thats true. I give chances but most I did I left...just creepy behavior.

Complexconfessions · M

I cant speak for your looks but I wouldnt think youre ugly just because men are hornballs. Men typically think with their cocks unfortunately. Not all men are like that though, theres plenty that want to form a genuine connection with someone before even thinking about that. Most times when you have the sexual conversations you soon realize when its over that theres nothing else there. Wasting my time is one of my biggest pet peeves so Id much rather form a bond or friendship with a person than get off for an hour or two. Im sure theres plenty of other guys who feel the same way here as well.

Disguised · 56-60, M

Being outgoing is sexy but only if you help the meek.
Lucious lips are sexy but only if they speak out for the weak.
Beautiful eyes are sexy but only if they see the homeless.
Being clever is sexy but only if you teach the mindless.
Nice legs are sexy but only if they walk to help those in need.
A curvy body is sexy but only if it does a good deed.

You are you. If people can't accept it then its their problem. Beauty is not measured by looks alone.

Dancingxghost · 36-40, M

ok let's break it down, maybe you're being a tad superficial, it's not about beauty being honest, I plays a part indeed but solely looking for a partner for it's looks and not for what they make it you feel, will make it end very quickly.

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@Dancingxghost I don't see the point of releationship if you're not physically attracted to them. Sorry. I'm not asking for super model but most guys I get lack basic hygiene skills, creepy behavior and terrible hair cuts and such.

Dancingxghost · 36-40, M

@SkullsandBeauty sure, because long standing relationships are always based on attraction. not feelings. but anyways, I can understand the lack of hygiene or creepy behavior, but a bad hair cut as a downer?..

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@Dancingxghost if hes good looking but an ass, not worth it.

Always good to look presentable on a date.

Virgo79 · 61-69, M

Your user pic is kinda hot🤭

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WeighedDown · 36-40, M

What the hell is wrong with being ugly?

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@WeighedDown nothing

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Ynot1more · 46-50, M

What do u look like?

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@Ynot1more a woman.

Ynot1more · 46-50, M

@SkullsandBeauty you have already stated u judge the guys... only a few are good looking and rest just dogs... how can we tell u what we think if we can't see? I know I'm not super hot but I'm not horrible but mostly cause I decided this not someone else... confidence is 90% of the game... if u just want other peeps opinion u got to show us