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Maybe I'm ugly?

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Beauty is subjective but I get a few nice looking guys talking to me, but, a majority who want to do dirty stuff are..not my type. Maybe I'm ugly?

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marsbar · F Best Comment

A lot of men have high libidos, especially in your age range. But what they don’t realize is that many women need that connection first before engaging in anything sexual. A woman’s mind needs to be stimulated first before intimacy can occur.

So no, don’t think that you’re ugly.

I’ve experienced those situations myself. Don’t get pressured into something you’re not comfortable with.

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@marsbar Thank you! I'm not trying to be superficial at all, I just want some one who takes care of themselves mentally and physically.

Little small flaws dont bother me.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

@marsbar Great advice. As men get older, it also shifts from a physical to more of a mental stimulation for things to happen. I think it’s more satisfying too.

marsbar · F

@SkullsandBeauty I agree. For me, I need to be attracted to someone both physically & personality-wise. Most times if a guy is just ok to me, if I’m really attracted to his personality, then he starts looking hot to me. So in the end, personality counts more for me. But yeah, there’s gotta be some physical attraction there to begin with.

Mental health is so important to me too, as well as hygiene. And they’ve gotta smell good ALL over since pheromones are a big deal.

Thanks for BC 😇

marsbar · F

@Livingwell Thanks. Yes, I agree. It’s different with a lot of older men.