Maybe I'm ugly?

I cant speak for your looks but I wouldnt think youre ugly just because men are hornballs. Men typically think with their cocks unfortunately. Not all men are like that though, theres plenty that want to form a genuine connection with someone before even thinking about that. Most times when you have the sexual conversations you soon realize when its over that theres nothing else there. Wasting my time is one of my biggest pet peeves so Id much rather form a bond or friendship with a person than get off for an hour or two. Im sure theres plenty of other guys who feel the same way here as well.