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My sister called me a bad friend because I didn’t call my friends out for being an idiot? (Please read before answering)?

One of the girls I’ve been hanging with who I haven’t seen in a while told me that she did something that will scare her ex boyfriend. She told me she pretended to be a police officer to her exe’s job. I was like, “......Wow you did that?”
She said, “Yeah haha haha. Remember I told you that he has a record for shoplifting? Well I’m going to get him in trouble. Hahaha isn’t that smart.”
I couldn’t say anything. I was like, “He’s going to get it.”
My sister went ballistic when I told her. She said, “That is illegal and she’s being very stupid for doing that! What’s worse is that YOU as her friend didn’t call her out on that. Plus you know about it now and you can get into some serious trouble for that. You need to call her out. Report her.”
I said, “Well thought she was being an huge, boastful idiot. But I didn’t wanna start an argument and she’s my friend and -“
She cut me off and said, “See that’s it right there! You are letting your friend get away with that behavior. If you were a TRUE friend, you would have called her an huge idiot for her actions! True friends call you out on your bullshit. To put it bluntly, you not being a good friend right now. You’re not. You’re a terrible friend for not letting her know she’s wrong. You seem to support that and you need to call her out. You don’t speak up, that is your problem! Can’t be silent forever. Sometimes as being a true friend you gotta give them some tough love.”

See now I feel bad. Thanks a lot sis.
BlueVeins · 22-25
She's kinda right. Maybe overly harsh considering that you have a condition that makes it harder for you to socialize, but you should [i]definitely[/i] tell your friend not to impersonate a police officer for her own good.

Pay no mind to MarkPaul, he's a dumbass whose words have no bearing on anyone's life.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@BlueVeins My best friend even told me, “Why the hell didn’t you tell her off about that? That is a serious offense and you didn’t even call her out for that. You are very stupid for not telling her that and you call yourself a real friend? You called me out on my crap, why can’t you do that with her? You better stop this niceness!”
Well impersonating an officer is not just a bad idea, it's a criminal offense.
You should at least tell her that.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@Pikachu My sister thinks I’m a bad friend. That hurts
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Is there no end to your manufactured drama?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@xSiFiGamer2016x It's just drama on top of drama... is my point.
@MarkPaul Like a play within a play? Sounds Shakespearean!
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
She's right, again. And your "friend" pretty much committed a crime by pretending to be a cop. It's basically a federal offense. Why would you let her get away with it? 😑
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@AutismGirl18 Well, you didn't know before, and I understand that, but you know now. You won't do it again, right?
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@xSiFiGamer2016x No I won’t. My two friends said to stay away from her and they’ve warned me and she isn’t a true friend, they are. They just don’t know her! My guy friend said that real friends call you out on your bs and it isn’t mean to do so.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@AutismGirl18 Good. Just pay attention to the people that are your REAL friends and family. You deserve better than a fake friend.

 
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