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So, what's your opinion on...

Super opinionated people? It's fine to have an opinion, but there's a delicate art in the balance, don't ya think? A moment where you step back and say to yourself "I have an opinion on this, but is it really necessary that I express it?"
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To be honest, I struggle with what some would say is opinionated in some instances. By way of explanation: A man who's opinion is 'none-negotiable', in that a man who knows he is right purely because the facts says he is right ... must be right. I've seen instances where a verbal war has broken out because a person challenges his opinion, who then goes on to say he is opinionated because he debunks what isn't right.

All I get from the definition of opinionated is that some might step back, as you say, not because they are wrong but because they won't fight to prove they are right.

(Does that make any sense, even?)... LOL
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@OWTFWN:
Then that person needs to say that it is not his opinion but that the facts show...

You are absolutely right, but it does not stop those who's own opinion dictates they are correct (who have not researched their opinion) yet hold in believing they are correct regardless.

[Edit for typo]
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
As someone who genuinely believes that my opinion is better than everyone else's on certain subjects (mostly music), even though I know it's wrong, I still do it.
SW-User
You're very opinionated on things you feel strongly about? I understand that
I guess there are times to keep your mouth shut but never on SW. I think it's good to have our views challenged and be open to new ideas.
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Yes chit chatting about what I'm going to do today and how the grass is wet in the morning and how I want pizza gets boring. I'm not the only one here who enjoys a friendly debate if you don't like it it's all good you don't have to get involved if you don't want to. I happen to not enjoy being talked down to like I'm a child or psychoanalyzed by someone via the internet but I wouldn't tell you to keep your opinion to yourself.
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Noble · 56-60, M
I believe it's very important to have your own opinion! It's okay to express it when you feel the need, but it's imparitive you not expect others to agree, nor be offended if they express theirs as well. One must be open to differences, and not judgemental.
Just my opinion; yours may differ, and that's okay. LOL
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Yes, I'm in line with that. I was curious about the overly opinionated. An opinion on every.single.thing. And the need to express it. Someone else mentioned having a filter. I think it's a good thing to use and in implementing common curtesy. Because let's face it, not everyone cares about your opinion
Noble · 56-60, M
I'm sure it's different, for different people, CH; some to be expressive regardless of the topic, others for attention, ...and some just entice contention.
Can't say for sure, but I, eventually glaze over those people...they get lost in the background. But others, those with intellectually well-spoken comments can be worth reading and hearing their opinion.
Either way, the block bottom can be your friend when it becomes too much.
SW-User
I have no problem whatsoever with a person having an opinion and feeling like they need to express it. What I do have a problem with are the super opinionated that are deaf to the opinions of others and think their opinion is the only opinion.
SW-User
I think after awhile most people start to tune out overly opinionated people. So, in essence they are hurting themselves by being so opinionated that their opinions become muted.
SW-User
That's very true as well.....the people around them become numb to it. So they seek out new poor souls to torment.
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@StrangeWorld: ha. I see it happen. Lol
TheShanachie · 61-69, M
My personality clashes with those people, so I try and avoid them when possible. As for keeping a check on myself, I try to remind myself that the subject and World does not revolve around me and what I think about certain topics, those seriously opinionated people tend to also be very self centered people.
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Yes. And, I've noticed a bit immature
SW-User
When you ask a question here you will get all kinds of opinions.
In real life if they do not ask I do not give one.
I try to use some tact when I answer.
SW-User
Totally agree. When you ask a question you are inviting opinions. I guess I'm referring to posts/stories of a different nature. Ones that are not asking for an opinion. But are just statements, thoughts or ideas.
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@CharmedHeart: I think ,,because it is a public posting people will feel it is up there for review and will make their sentiments known.
If they are respectful, I am fine with that, but there is no need to be a rude jackass about it or to keep harping on it, which is what I think(?) you are saying.
SW-User
On some level, yes. I was mainly referring to an incessant amount of opinions which happen to always be condescending and/or negative.
And, I agree with your reasoning.
SW-User
Absolutely...

I think a general anonymous vent with no clear target is fine...

I think opinionating harshly and uninvited upon something someone may have shared should be questioned...

Why do I feel the need to say this?
What do I hope the impact will be?
What is the impact likely to be?
Am I going to possibly cause hurt?
Do I care?
Why don't I care?
Is that fair?
Is there a better way to deal with this strong opinion I have?
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Yes, very good points. I agree. Thank you
SW-User
I like the saying Do no harm, but take no shit. That is how I try to live my life. If something I am going to say is going to do harm and no good then I try to keep out of it.
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I like that. That's my stance too. I am here on SW exactly as I am IRL too.
BpLkSm2 · 31-35, M
I think you've hit the nail on the head. There's a time and a place to voice opinions
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Right. After a while it just becomes annoying..
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A filter?? Inconceivable.
SW-User
Yes. A filter. Perfect! Do you think most would be as opinionated outside of the Internet?
SW-User
I like to think I am a quiet guy but I have to restrain myself in real life more.
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Me too. I have opinions on a lot of things. I just use wisdom in where and when I need to express them.
I think a lack in that area shows a lot of immaturity
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Coppercoil · M
Yes that and a total lack of humility. So much diversity in the world.. various religions, philosophies.. ways of living.. kinds of music.. fashion.. art.. and on and on and on.. but you don't think exactly like me and you are some kinda moron. Makes no sense
Say what you see ,why hide shit
@CharmedHeart: No plans yet but who knows
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Okay.. Don't disappear without saying goodbye!!
@CharmedHeart: I'll not 😉

 
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