when you have feelings for someone do you tell them or hide it.

Moribund · 26-30, M

Hide it. No other way for me. I just don't want to put such a burden on another's shoulders or ruin a relationship with the inevitable awkwardness.

SW-User

It's easier to hide it.
Sometimes they force it out of me.

hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

I tend to be reserved about that sort of thing, but lately I've working on changing that. I want the people who are important to me to know.

SW-User

I think I'm almost too forward.
I tell them.

SW-User

I hide it, it never ends well for me. Lesson learned...

SW-User

Hide it telling only ruins it

SW-User

I'll hide it at first, until I no longer can.

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

When it matters I'll tell them

Picklebobble · 56-60, M

If its somebody you're close to as a friend.
Trust me. They already know !
But you've been discreet enough not to mention it and they've been glad you have that's why they haven't shot you down.
It saves you the "I only see you as a good friend" speech.
Kinda sucks I know. But at least you can appreciate each others friendship as opposed to feeling embarrassed every time you're in each others company.

reubles · 41-45, M

Fee-lings?🤔

PraiseBeToYevon · 41-45, F

I will eventually tell them. It took me a while this last time, but I think I made it clear that I was interested even before I said it

SW-User

I told them they told me they felt the same and then they disappeared into the real world out there

SW-User

Try to destroy/handle it 😳
College is confusing lol

1961dave · 61-69, M

Yes , one of the two.

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

Im hiding it for now on