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when you have feelings for someone do you tell them or hide it.

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Picklebobble · 56-60, M
If its somebody you're close to as a friend.
Trust me. They already know !
But you've been discreet enough not to mention it and they've been glad you have that's why they haven't shot you down.
It saves you the "I only see you as a good friend" speech.
Kinda sucks I know. But at least you can appreciate each others friendship as opposed to feeling embarrassed every time you're in each others company.
SW-User
thats true because once the cat's out of the bag. they will usually see you differently if they dont feel the same way.
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
@theowl: And then they think maybe they should avoid you and then you feel guilty and then you do your best to stay out the way and then it becomes obvious to everybody else that knows the two of you.....it's just an endless guilt trip.
Why is it that people say they want love, all the time !
Yet when anyone openly declares it rather than say 'oh wow!' And rationally discuss it. Maybe even to the point of letting you down gently if they don't feel the same way.? At least that way you might be able to have a friendship based on mutual understanding without you feeling like theyre caving your entire world on top of you.!!!?
SW-User
i have been there with girls its like they freak out since you shown that you had feelings and they just push you away and that friendship is no longer there. its like your presence just makes them feel uncomfortable.
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
@theowl: mankind and his relationships still have some evolving to do.