D: same guy still pushing for an over night stay somewhere 馃槶
I'm too nervous about doing an over night. 馃檨 We've only met once. It's too soon and completely freaked out and Wana hide 馃槶馃槶. Starting to find him really pushy now 馃槶
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SumKindaMunster 路 51-55, M
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SumKindaMunster 路 51-55, M
@Silentangel All the more reason to not go. If he is pressuring you already, its only going to get more intense if you go over there.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@SumKindaMunster that's what I'm thinking too Ive been in that situation before. It's not nice and not easy to get out of. I've got very used to being in control of everything now. He did text back saying we can do things on my terms. I think he realised he was being pushy too and I'm sure he forgets I'm not like his sqauddies he works with
SumKindaMunster 路 51-55, M
Excellent glad to hear it!
TeirdalinFirefall 路 31-35, M
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Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@TeirdalinFirefall 馃槀馃槀 okay that has cheered me up! But all I'm seeing is the dick pick version 馃槀馃槀
TeirdalinFirefall 路 31-35, M
@Silentangel Well it's the same type of person just more manipulative and less straightforward.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@TeirdalinFirefall yeah, he was always nice and stuff in college and band practice. But always quiet. He does drink quite often and always a lot which isn't good either
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@NuclearSub I'm not I can take down guys easy if needed. I'm into him but not his new founded pushiness. Has to be a line somewhere. It's my body my rules if he doesn't like it he can lump it
TeirdalinFirefall 路 31-35, M
@Silentangel If you only met once he could have just been pretending to be nice to get into your pants as one would say.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@TeirdalinFirefall that's what I'm worried about. Nearly every guy Ive met wants my ass after five minutes of knowing me. It's like I know I got a nice ass and legs but you ain't having it 馃槀馃槀
Mamapolo2016 路 F
Stand in front of a mirror and practice saying "No."
Enunciate clearly, make sure the sound couldn't be mistaken for any other word. When he pushes again, ask him to be quiet and listen. Say "No," just the way you've practiced it. Ask him if he understood.
Some boys (not men) keep a score sheet and if he is pushing you when you don't want pushed, he's just a kid screaming GIMME!
In this day, committing to an overnight with someone you've met once isn't just being easy - it's dangerous.
Enunciate clearly, make sure the sound couldn't be mistaken for any other word. When he pushes again, ask him to be quiet and listen. Say "No," just the way you've practiced it. Ask him if he understood.
Some boys (not men) keep a score sheet and if he is pushing you when you don't want pushed, he's just a kid screaming GIMME!
In this day, committing to an overnight with someone you've met once isn't just being easy - it's dangerous.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
SW-User
@Silentangel oh lol I get it. My ex was an Army dude. They are pretty cocky.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@SW-User he is a cocky shit 馃槀. I mean I can give as good as he delivers banter wise but when it comes to my body that's another matter and something i and I along control. I mean I like him a lot but I Wana get to know him more plus I'm shy when it comes to new people. My head goes into shy toddler mode and I Wana leg to hide behind lol
xixgun 路 M
There's this new word. It works really well.
"No."
Add profanity to it for emphasis.
"No."
Add profanity to it for emphasis.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@xixgun I do and if no doesn't work I use self defence. Best life lesson I ever learnt. He's just making me feel very over whelmed . Seem to get the same type constantly. It's why I took a long break to work on myself more and rebuild myself
Reject 路 26-30, M
He does not care about you if he's pushing anything he knows you're uncomfortable with.
DonaldTrumpet 路 70-79, M
firefall 路 61-69, M
yeah, big red flag
PTCdresser57 路 61-69, M
Tell him NO!
MartinTheFirst 路 26-30, M
LookingForIt987 路 51-55, M
@Silentangel Screw that. Make sure you have on steel-toed boots, so you can properly kick him in the stones if needed.
Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@LookingForIt987 haha I have heels do they count? Can't find my steelies!
LookingForIt987 路 51-55, M
@Silentangel They should function quite well, yes. :)