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Would you meet someone if you think their playing you?

A guy wants to meet up but I feel he's taking me along for a ride really. My dizzy spells have been acting up like crazy lately so I've been a little unwell and I'm not feeling particularly confident about going out in general and such because of it 🙁.

I get dizzy spells on a regular basis and sometimes feels like the mother of all hangovers without the drink! I've been getting this checked out by the specialists it's just taking time really. But I don't want the guy to think it's him that's the problem 🙁

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Peppa · 31-35, F

This may be a good test.
1 explain and don't go. 2 go and explain, then if you have a dizzy spell you can see how he behaves, as for yourself have back up money and a cab number....

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@Peppa I have taxi numbers saved in my phone for all the local areas 😂. My friends are pretty understanding in that this is the new normal now which is great 😊 . I mean I can make them happen if I go to lie on my side real quick 🤷

SW-User

Listen to your inner voice 💙

LyricalOne · F

If a friend asked you this, what would you say?

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@LyricalOne part of me doesn't want to because of my health condition not being great I mean going faint/dizzy every ten mins is a big turn off lol. I know he's only after one thing too. So that's putting me off a bit too but I still want to be friends 🙁. GAH so much confusion! ><

LyricalOne · F

@Silentangel He’s playing you and is only after one thing. Why would you meet him? Want more for yourself.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@LyricalOne I think he's confused with what he wants too. He's an okay guy I've known him for a long time. It's just my health that's putting me off going out and such and dating in general

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

If I thought he was playing me? No. I would either give it more time, or move on if it became clear that he was just playing with my feelings, or using me.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@TeresaRudolph71 the trouble is I just want friendship not friends with benefits. Luckily his job keeps him off my case more often than not 😂 so I've been able to figure out how I'm gunna tell him I just Wana be friends

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

@Silentangel Ugh, this sounds all too familiar. Just tell him, that's all you can do. Tell him that you really do like and care about him as a friend, but that's all, and nothing personal, but the "friends with benefits" thing isn't going to work for you.

If he doesn't respect that, or acts hurt and doesn't want to be friends when you've told him that, then he wasn't a real friend to begin with. It sounds like you already have a gut feeling that that's the case, but telling him what you want (and don't want), and setting firm boundaries, will confirm whether or not his friendship is genuine.

If he turns out not to be genuine, then you haven't really lost anything, though I know that can be very hard to accept. Best of luck to you.

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@TeresaRudolph71 yeah I get that, he knows about my odd condition and is quite good about it which isn't a bad thing I'm just hoping we can be just friends

Happymedium · 51-55, F

Sorry about your health problem.....but let's get to that part where you think he's playing you🤔🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

Uhmmmm! Don't go!

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@Happymedium my trouble is I want to tell him to fuck off face to face because that's the right thing to do but I can't say no to him 😂. Ah it's okay about the weird constant dizzy spells getting that sorted hopefully! Besides I'd rather concentrate on me right now rather than some guy.

Happymedium · 51-55, F

@Silentangel
😂[quote] I can't say no to him 😂. [/quote]😂
been there!

🤔SINCE YOU HAVE NO CONTROL 😂I think you're going to have to go with a. "Fuck Off" text.

Then.....you better give your phone to a friend so you don't get sucked back In

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