The older I get, the more I realise adults don't know what theyre doing either and are just pretending to have it together

Congratulations! Now you're an adult! :)

They usually have more experience at doing it wrong. That's why we can advise you how to do it. :)

Everyone starts fresh in life. No one starts with knowledge of everything. It's not that people know what they are doing but they do what they like because it's their life. And I don't think they are pretending to know, they act like it because they think they know better..

Pretending is about all we can do when we work 40+ hours a week to pay 10 different bills and raise kids.

yep it's one of those things you find out eventually.

Live another 30 yrs of being damned if you do or damned if you don't.

Who is pretending?

Fake it 'til you make it.

Preach!

People don't change!! (Most people)

Yep. Pretty much